BDSM is Love

So not true. If you develop a relationship with someone and are a m/f hater, then what results is abuse, not loving commitment and BDSM. Just like vanilla (again, non-BDSM) relationships you have to like the person you are with, and with a D/s relationship that is more powerful. There is the elements of trust and respect that underlie the strength of the relationship.

So, you can’t be a m/f hater and yet engage in consensual, safe BDSM activities with them. Just doesn’t work to put two and two together like that.

–luna

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