BDSM Myth: All the Master / slave stuff is play acting.
It may look like play acting to those unfamiliar with D/s lifestyle choices, but to the participants it is very real. A scene is not only about sensation play but about role playing and power exchange. The people involved in it feel the roles they are in and either submit or dominant by choice. Anyone can pretend to be a Master or slave, but for BDSMers it is who they are. They feel their role within themselves and exchange the power between themselves consensually.
Participants of BDSM can be Master/ slave outside of playing and is common within commited relationships to maintain that power exchange. It is a lifestyle choice, a living and for the people that engage in a M/s (Master/slave) relationships it is not only fullfilling but right for them.
–luna
Miranda Sex Garden - A Fairytale of Slavery
I'm luna, KnyghtMare's submissive since 2004. I'm a BBW with brown hair and blue eyes. I've been married, separated, almost divorced now; living with my Master.
Master placed his permanent collar on me January 27, 2006. I'm learning and growing into the perfect submissive for him. I'm changing my behaviors, my attitude and my thought processes to become a better person.
This is an adult blog. If you get offended to talk of sex, sexuality and BDSM, please turn back now.
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