BDSM is Love

It is believed that because BDSM isn’t widely accepted that the only people who participate are lower class, criminal types, secretive peoples and others that aren’t accepted in mainstream openly. This is far from true. The need to be involved in BDSM as a lifestyle or play style is in your blood, it is the way a person is wired. It’s not based on nurture, but nature. There are very prominent people into BDSM, from the Pentagon and other National leaders to the poorer people that live in the ghettos of this land. No one is excluded. Doctors, lawyers, school officials, church leaders. They are all not excluded.

The idea behind this is that so many of us have to keep our sexuality a secret because of the repercussions of society if they find out. Like I mentioned earlier, discrimination is still strong when it comes to BDSM mostly because people don’t understand it. It is not abuse, it is not violence. So many states still rule BDSM behavior as assault and that brings people even further from exposure.

It’s who we are not where we came from or what we do that should matter.

Macy Gray - Freak Like Me