BDSM is Love

This is purely my opinion, and as it is my blog… well, you know the drill. Take what you want and leave the rest.

I belive that the most important aspect of BDSM is trust. In the beginning of a relationship one starts with nothing. You have to build all the aspects if you wish a relationship with someone to last. The foundation of these I believe is communication. I don’t think I’d be as far as I am in my relationship if I didn’t open up and become completely honest with him. Speaking about anything and everything, and receiving the best listening I have ever seen from someone (good listener- wow) has been what gave me the respect for his position that he was hoping to get as my Dominant.

Trust is what will keep my relationship strong. With this trust I know that he and I will continue to communicate as well as we always have and that my respect for him, and his for me will grow as a result. Trust will keep me safe, happy and devoted to him as long as is possible.

–luna

Marilyn Manson - Redeemer (from the Queen of the Damned Sountrack)