BDSM is Love

This is an online phenomenon. People come into a chat room and the first submissive they see (uncapped nick)…

MasterLordDomSir: Down on your knees slave and service me!
littlesubbie: Um, pardon?
MasterLordDomSir: I’m a Master, been in the lifestyle for 20 years, I’m 32 and you will obey me.
littlesubbie: 20 years? You were 12 when you started? Hard to believe and better yet, I doubt you are a Master.
MasterLordDomSir: How dare you girl! You deserve a spanking for that!
littlesubbie: Whatever Sir. Respect is earned, not assumed.

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Not as common in real life, but it does happen when a Dominant’s ego gets a bit too big for them to handle. They think that thier way is the only way and that because they have X years experience they earn the rank of Master. Within my local community there are a few that have earned the title Master amidst everyone there. They have shown their knowledge, patience, experience and have earned the respect of everyone there.

What needs to be known is that submissives have the last say. They can submit or not, they can give you respect or they will refuse you. Either way you are under the whim of the majority. Don’t let anyone tell you that they deserve rank or title just because they hold the Dominant role. Like everything else, respect is earned.

–luna

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