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Tonight is the first D/s forum for my local group since the summer break. I coordinate these on a monthly basis and love doing them. Dominants and submissives get together with each other to talk about issues in the lifestyle, from basics to more complex issues. Today for the submissives, it’s a basic topic: Limits, [...]

I have awesome news for everyone. I weighed myself yesterday, marking a week of dieting (almost the longest I have ever gone) and I have lost 4 lbs! Granted I am sure most of that was water weight, I’m not complaining. I’m still going strong and watching every single thing I eat, exercising 5 times [...]

From the Yahoo group: Supporting Submissive Women (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/supportingsubmissivewomen)
What have you done lately to honor yourself?
I have begun a diet to make myself healthy and to feel better about myself. I have also started going to the gym with a friend. It’s great affirmation to have fitness goals and try to surpass them. I hope to [...]

One week ago I started dieting. One week ago I made a decision to loose weight and get fit, for health’s sake. I am now finding the stress of dieting causing emotional stresses on my relationship, physical downfalls in the bedroom, and a constant hunger I can’t ignore.
Master and I have been almost like silent [...]

Someday, hopefully soon, I am going to remember to address Master correctly. For about 2 weeks now, since the start of my new rules, I have been failing miserably. I am supposed to address Master whenever I ask a question, answer a question or reply to an order. I haven’t done a good job and [...]

Today was my first day exercising at the campus wellness center. I really liked it and actually had thoughts of me doing it frequently. I will look forward to *L* and my workout days. I did about 10 min on the stationary bike and 10 min of weight machines, then for cool down I walked [...]

I went to the dr. yesterday. For the past week I have had a severe shoulder pain that needed some answers. The pain goes up my neck into my temples and down my arm to tingle in my fingers. He told me that it’s like tendonitis only the muscles tense up and cause pain. He [...]

I have a lot of reading to do tomorrow and this weekend. I hope that I can get as much of it done as possible so that I can have some rest.
Tomorrow I go to the doctor about my sore shoulder. I am thinking it is a rotary cuff injury of some sort. I’ll [...]

It wasn’t what I had expected when Master told me he was horny and wanted me. I was all ready for some spectacular sex, he had something else in mind. When I entered the bedroom I disrobed and lay on the bed, touching and kissing Master when I could. I have to admit I wanted [...]

For some of you, this will be an unusual post. I am about to rant. I’ve not done that here, but maybe twice so please, feel free to be shocked, bewildered, and chuckle. ‘Cause deep down inside, I’m doing it too.
Nothing exciting here this time I’m afraid. I’d like to just vent about [...]

Submission by Choice: How to Work Your Way Back to Yourself
Submission has been called a gift. It has been said to be a natural characteristic. Submission is also a choice. When I first entered the lifestyle, no one would have mistaken me for a submissive. I am strong willed, commanding and independent. I have [...]

This date will never be forgotten.
Life will never be the same.
One resolves this to Immortal Memory,
So that life my continue
only roughly interrupted.
Immortal Memory haunts
No second chances
No escape for many
We call on the names of souls
Washed into turbulence and dreams.
Never more seen, heard, nor felt
Our friends, family and coworkers
Shine in the night’s sky
with the stars and [...]

Do you crave structure in your life, or are you more of a ‘go with the flow’ sort of person? — Kindlings
I feel that I crave more structure than my Master is willing to provide at this point. I know that it will come with time, but I would probably feel more at ease [...]

So, last night didn’t go as desired. Sleep overtook me and I explained to Master that I was too tired for sex. Being the wonderful man he is, he tucked me in and that was it. But I was also horny. So I masturbated. Takes me 30 sec to a minute for release. And it’s [...]

A busy day that it was, I spent most of it wishing I was at home with Master. When the time came to come home I was hungry. We went out to get something to cook for dinner and then back home. The whole time I was feeling lonely and separated from Master.
Now that night [...]

Tonight was a 2 fold event. Nothing particularly special to report during the day, just lazying around, enjoying a Law and Order: SVW Marathon. However tonight is what I want to talk about. During sex tonight we pulled out the new nipple clamps after my suggestion to try them out. He applied them [...]

I make floggers in my free time. Some of you that read this are aware, and a couple have been lucky enough to buy a special one from me. I’d like to just toot my horn here and show the basic ones that I make and maybe find some interested others that might want to [...]

Other than than pile of homework that I will have for this weekend I hope to work more on my website. It truly has become somewhat of an obsession and I don’t see it stopping. I want to make it awesome and the best I can do. Labors of love are always the best. I [...]