BDSM is Love

luna wishes you all a wonderful day and blessed sleep. I thank you all for following me as I raised money for a cause that’s near and dear to me. The Institute for 21st Century Relationships will continue to bring awareness and education to the public about alternative loving consensual relationships because of your help. [...]

I would love to thank each and every one of my sponsors individually, but lack of wakefullness hinders that right now. This is my big hug of thanks for supporting me and giving me something worth blogging for; a cause and a pull. Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
–luna
PS: If you would [...]

Leather and Roses is one of my favorite BDSM resource sites. I have never seen so many essays all in one place! If you are curious or a seasoned BDSM er, you should check it out. You won’t be sorry.
–luna

I’m feeling fatigue set in. It’s harder and harder to write proper posts. I feel good about the information that I have provided today. I hope that it has opened some minds. Just a bit more and this year’s Blogathon is over.
–luna

What BDSM type are you?

Submissive — The one with the real power in the play, you like to get down on all fours or get tied ’till you turn purple, but you won’t hesitate to use the safe word if things start to get out of hand. Pretend all you want, you’re the master [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person submissive?
A submissive is a man or woman that for whatever reason chooses to follow the directions, adjust to behavior modifications and submit to the power of another. These things can include but are not limited to sexual submission, domestic service, platonic recession of power, work environment with a [...]

What I like best about my life is that I am so loved and cared for by a wonderful man. My Dominant partner moved from the UK to be with me forever and I couldn’t be happier. He changed his life for little ol’ me! Watching him adapt to life in the US has been [...]

Yes, I’m getting so very tired. I feel out of energy, out of original thoughts and out of topics. I’m not sure what else to write about for the remaining time…. maybe I should search for fun faqs or something….
–luna

I’m blogging for the Institute for 21st Century Relationships.
The Institute was founded at the dawn of the new millennium (July 2000) to help people create lasting intimate relationships that will work in our present world. We are a research and [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person Dominant?
A Dominant carries specific qualities for me that express who he is to the submissive and to the community. These qualities are those that I look for in any person that says they are Dominant.
The first one of importance to me is self control. A Dominant shouldn’t upset [...]

For some people pain is pleasurable. For me it certainly is. I’m terrible at discussing the how’s and whys so I’m defering to an essay from Pyschology Today:

I had 5 mins before it was time to post again. Master stood beside me in wait.
“Yes Master?”
“Nothing, I’m just waiting for some attention.”
That’s all it took. I wrapped my hands around his flacid dick and rubbed it, I massaged his balls and teased with the skin over his cockhead. It grew hard very quickly. [...]

Master asked for a blowjob tonight in between posts. Instead of willingly doing so I gave him a face and said “no.” He has now requested that I blog about why I said no.
I’m not supposed to say no, I’m supposed to be willing to do anything to please Master whenever he wishes. It’s a [...]

I’m chewing gum and chatting in the IRC channel when I can. I’m at a loss of what to write about nearing the end so I will need to rely on complete randomness and horny thoughts to get me through!
–luna

kimee’s Daily Thoughts and Sporadic Nonesense is blogging for The Susan G. Komen Foundation. Go read her thoughts now!

From Kindlings:
Would you want to be trained (in whatever areas applied) by someone who you were not owned by? Why or why not? In what areas?
Yes I think I would like to be trained by someone other than my owner in a few areas. The only reason I would is because I know my Master [...]

A Tag is like a signature line for forums and emails and stuff. They can be small or large. I had one made special for me and I thought I’d share it. Note, this does not look like me.

This question is very common among people who don’t understand a lot of what BDSM is. BDSM is a huge acronym for Bondage/Discipline/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism. Now that doesnt mean that when you are into BDSM that you are into all of them. The beauty of it is that you can pick and choose what you like and [...]

This is a fantasy. No real play ever happened like this. If you do try this on your own please play safely and with clean partners.
She laid down next to me. She had never touched another woman before and was timid in her first attempts to carress me. I let her explore at her own [...]

“It’s so hard to find someone in the Lifestyle that I’m compatible with. You are so lucky to have found someone.”
I don’t know how many times I hear this on a daily basis when conversing. It always brings up my view on the whole dating atmosphere within the Lifestyle. Yes, it is hard to find [...]