BDSM is Love

From Submissive Journal Prompts: Do you work outside the home? How does that affect your dynamic? What do you do to define your work mindset from your submissive one?

Obviously if you have ever read my blog then you know that I work outside the home every day. I work in an office setting and leave before Master gets up and come home with only 6 hours before bedtime again. It’s pretty hard to get all that I want to get squeezed into the evening. Master works here at home and I know that he’s got the same type of issues to separate work from home life. What’s been harder has been changing my mindset from one of work work work to submissiveness. I just haven’t gotten that straightened out yet.

Several things affect the dynamic with me working away from home and Master working at home. First our time together is less, so the time we do has to be more powerful. I’m not saying that every single second has to be special but when we do spend time together it has to mean something. Of course everyone could say that and most likely deals with more issues and daily challenges than we do.

Secondly I have a hard time separating my work life from home life. We’ve been working on it for awhile now. I do have a relaxing plan for when I get home. I’ve not done it in awhile, for some reason I’ve done okay separating myself. Maybe it’s the new workout and diet that has me more focused. Hopefully I will stay that way.

Lastly I take longer to get in the mood, any mood that would be nice for Master to live with. Getting into my submissive mindset is more about closing off all the stuff in my mind; the worries and stress, chores, friends, life in general. I just can’t figure out how to shut it off and focus on Master only.

–luna