Thursday Question #6: BDSM Enhancement

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like.
This will be a regular weekly addition to the site, come back often and see what people have to say!
This week’s question:
How has BDSM enhanced your relationship?


















BDSM has enhanced my relationship with M in so many ways. First, it has given us the opportunity to get to know each other and how each of us tick on a much deeper level than in other vanilla relationships I've had in my pre BDSM days. Of course, the BDSM element has enabled us to have the best sex either of us has ever had just by understanding each others needs and fufilling them more completely than either of us ever imagined. Honestly, being able to live out fantasies I've had in my head since I was a girl that I thought would only ever be part of my thoughts has been nothing short of orgasmically divine. But the most important thing for me personally is that I'm learning to set aside the me me me part of me and put his needs demands and wishes before my own which has helped me become less selfish and to see beyond myself which has made me a better person for M and in general.
Don't get me wrong. I get PMS and have my moments. As a woman, how could I not? But I do believe I'm evolving as a woman and a submissive.