Ask luna #7: Difficulty in proving Abuse in BDSM
Is it more difficult to prove that someone has been the victim of abuse in a BDSM relationship than to prove that someone has been abused in a vanilla relationship and, if so, how does one go about proving the abuse?
It’s not really about proving abuse and more about substantiating if consent was given. If you read my previous post you’ll see the comparisons for BDSM and abuse. If a partner did not consent to the activity then it’s abuse. If there is no trust, no communication and the person feels that they aren’t being cared for it could be abuse. You are still human.

















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