BDSM is Love

Yesterday’s rope demo munch has pretty good. We were new people at this munch and while there were no introductions we did feel… foreign. The rope demo however, was fantastic. Master and I as well as the entire group got hands on fun. Master didn’t learn a whole lot; but what he did was great.

The rope expert and his sassy mouthed bottom showed us one column ties and two column ties; which Master knows and employs. He showed a chest harness. It was a variation on the pearl harness that Master uses on me often. We discussed some ideas for modifying ties for bottoms that aren’t as flexible and can’t put they arms behind their back fully (the bottom could touch her elbows behind her back, making a rope sleeve would be beautiful). Master doesn’t like the idea of trying a sleeve on me because my arms don’t go behind my back at all really but I’d like to feel the rope up my arms keeping them in a semblance of tied behind me.

After I asked Master, he asked the rope expert about hogties, as we’ve never done one and he showed one that worked into the chest harness I was already wearing. It was delicious, very restrictive once Master pulled up the cinch on my leg tie and then he did my hands too in front of me but attached to the harness in back. Oh, I felt good. Really good. I did get floaty for awhile and loved that everyone was looking on respectfully.

I laid there in the grass (did I mention we did this in a park?) until the pressure of my weight made it difficult to breathe and I let Master know that I was not breathing well. He let me out pretty quickly and I felt great the rest of the night.

Then the experts took it inside the enclosed shelter where they did a suspension bondage scene on a suspension frame. Master watched quite closely. I know he wants to learn to suspend me safely; but I don’t think he could glean anything off of what we watched that would aid in his suspending me someday. I think he’ll have to hit the books and websites for that.

It was great, and Master and I plan on going back to that munch a few times a year (it’s 2 hours drive away). Make a presence there, ya know? Our evolving group could possibly some day years from now have just as fantastic munches. Start small; show that you want the group to grow and it will.

After the munch I wasn’t lucid enough to drive home just yet so we found Perkins and waited it out. We finally made it home about 1am. All I could dream about was rope and sex, rope and more rope. Master promises that today will involve rope. He wants to take pictures for his blog of his hogtie and he has plans for the Hitachi wand to be tied in there somewhere.