Pinch, Pull, Clamp… NO
Nipple clamps. Something in everyone’s toybag, right? An item that a lot of people can’t life without. Others have a love/hate relationship with them. I on the other hand am terrified of them. I have never ever been able to go long with them on; I end up screaming in a panic when the pain gets unbearable. The Japanese clover clamps are instant panic. The pinch is so intense that it goes from good pain to bad in 2 seconds flat.
Every single scene where they come out I panic and fight against the bonds to the point that Master has to get me out quickly and calm me down. This last time I scratched him and bumped my jaw in the process. It’s not pretty.
Master loves to try them when he wants to push me hard. I panic as soon as they are in view. I can’t explain why I’m so afraid of them. I can’t explain why they hurt so damn much when clothespins are fine in the exact same spot. I can have my breasts covered in clothespins and be fine. Bring out the nipple clamps and just drag them across my flesh and I freak out.
I’ve promised Master that I want to work on lowering the panic level on them so that while I still may never love them; I can at least tolerate them more so that he can push the limits with them as he wishes to. Tonight I put them on myself and wore them for 5 minutes without moving; that just makes it worse. I’m going to try to make it to 10 minutes by next week. Just a little progress at a time. I want to show him that I want to please him in any way. If that means getting over this silly phobia I will do it.
I’ve had several different types of nipple clamps. The alligator clip type were the least painful but with my innie nipples they just didn’t stay on at all. I’ve had adjustable screw clamps and while they were the most comfortable they weren’t fierce enough for Master. The clover clamps he loves. That’s where the fear really set in. The other seemed… safe almost. These seem frightening nipple removers. One bad yank and they come off; nipple and all. Not my idea of a fun time.
So the slow process has begun. I will wear them. I will hopefully get less afraid of them and in time allow them to swing a little, move a little and god forbid that heavy ring dangle a little. It’s all about the baby steps.
–luna
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I have the same reaction to clover clamps. They're wicked-painful. But, if you can make it to somewhere around 10 minutes or so, the pain starts to fade. But those 10 minutes are a BITCH. And then it only fades as long as they don't touch them or anything and how often does that happen?
Do you have the tweezer style clamps? Those can be adjusted to varying tightness, and range from good pain to intense pain. Or, these little things here, very very cheap in a hardware store, can be adjusted also. From just barely on to very very tight. It might help to build up some tolerance, especially if you can start adjusting it yourself. http://www.yurentools.com/newprd/yr-1017.jpg Good luck!
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I posted about nipples tonight too! It's a small world! Keep at it darlin…baby steps!!!!!! hugs