Thursday Question #15: Sexual Limits

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
What sexual behavior won’t you do or would do only under certain conditions? Write about those to clarify your boundaries.

















I am not crazy about anal play, and I hate it when Master does anything to my ears… it drives me crazy.
I’m also not a pain slut. I like a good flogging, but intense pain doesn’t get me off. I also don’t want my nipples abused. Played with and toyed with, fine, but abuse is bad.
Breath play is a no. I have asthma and I’ve been to the emergency room because of an asthma attack. That’s something I won’t fuck with, in any shape or form, what so ever. I don’t care what kind of situation I find myself in in the future.
Mara Tudor replied on December 7th, 2007 6:53 pm:
Oh geez… yeah, breath play isn’t a turn-on for me. But I suspect that I’d be willing to give it a try with someone who could prove to me that they knew what they were doing. And if it were their kink.
I do know that violet wands do nothing for me. The pain they give is just not at all erotic to me, not a turn-on at all. I’ve been zapped with one plenty of times and it just ain’t for me!
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