BDSM is Love

From Bonnie’s Spanko Brunch:

When receiving a spanking, what sounds do you or your partner make? Does the spankee scream, cry, shout, beg, whimper, laugh, moan, or maybe something else? To what extent does the reaction depend upon the circumstances (such as the reason for the spanking, the severity, the implements employed, words used by the spanker, and so forth)? Are you ever surprised by the words or noises a spanking induces?

The amount of noise I make depends on the reason for the spanking. I’m more stoic during a punishment spanking than an erotic one. I am normally a noisy person when in a scene or during sex. I’m either entertaining to the neighbors or really really annoying. Yet I still can look them in the eye when I see them outside.

For an erotic spanking I generally do a lot of moaning and groaning, sighs and hissing. I know that my sounds really turn Master on so I probably have learned to make even more noise than I usually would on my own. When the pain of the spanking starts stirring my endorphins I generally change my sounds to quieter moans and groans. I have periods where I don’t make any sounds at all. When the pain/pleasure combo gets ramped up I get really loud again, sometimes cussing and screaming, wiggling and jiggling my ass as the strikes are laid down. When things are going really well I start giggling and can laugh and laugh-snort pretty regularly. (I hate it when I snort… I laugh even more when I do.)
For a punishment spanking; which is always a caning I’m completely silent and try to be reposed. I take the caning with silence no matter how bad it hurts. I hate the cane; it’s not meant to be pleasant so I don’t want to confuse the punishment with moans or hisses. I do swallow pretty hard between each one.

The implements used will bring out different sounds too. Hard wood paddles generally get the grunts and groans and deeper sounding noises. Hand spanking gets the most varied noises. Any reaction can happen from sighs to yelps but the most common is always the moan/groan.

I used to be mortified when I’d start giggling during play. I couldn’t stop myself from doing it but I thought that Master would think I’m mocking his methods or something. Turns out that’s a natural reaction to the endorphins for some people. So, I’m a giggler. In fact the giggles also turn to outright silliness when I come down from that high.

–luna