BDSM is Love

A routine is another step towards the life that I see myself in as your submissive. I crave structure and order and while I’m terrible at doing this for myself, I feel that I can do it for you. I will extend myself to following a routine to please you and improve myself. I want to make myself perfect for you.

As far as what I would like within my routine; there are several ideas. They have different intentions for my growth and improvement for you and I have strong feelings over some of them.

First, I’d like to see house chores on the list. I don’t care for the house as well as I’d like and it shows in the kitchen and bathroom most times. I am disgusted by my inability to “find” time to clean. I think that if cleaning was put on a routine it would help me. I’d prefer to keep my amount of daily cleaning to one hour or under, just for the sake of having other things in my routine to occupy my time as well. I would like, further down the road a weekly more detailed list and a monthly list as well. I guess a lot like the Flylady I currently have put aside. I feel that timespan to do home chores should be a little flexible, as things happen. I want to be given the ability to do them, but if there is no time, due to other constraints, it doesn’t bring about punishment unless the reason they are not done is invalid. Only you can decide if it is an excuse rather than a valid reason. The benefits of house chores are a clean house of course, but also a definition of how you would like your submissive to keep the house. If you require that the house be spotless I feel that it would reflect in the amount/ severity of the chores on the list.

Secondly, I’d like a bedtime routine. It could be as simple as reading before bed for a half hour, to a bathing ritual of bath, shave, preen and clean. I think that this may help me get more fulfilling rest and also improve my appearance and behavior around you. I’ve always felt recharged after caring for myself and I’ve gotten so far out of the habit of doing that, that I have let myself down and you as well. I think that this should be a pretty strict assignment, that no matter what time it is when I prepare for bed, that I must do my bedtime routine and pending decision on how late it is; whether I should be in trouble for waiting so late. Now if we are out on the town or something late, I would hope that you would take that into account and allow me to bathe but not carry any repercussions of our tardiness. Generally I see me having time to do this nightly.

Lastly, I’d like some sort of submissive routine. Something that reminds me of my position. I’m not very creative with this one, but I’ve read blogs where submissives have had to do some form of training, be it butt plug (which I know you’d like) to bondage, corset training to positions. Just something to reaffirm my role everyday, couple of times a week, whatever and also to enhance our relationship together. I feel that this part of the routine should be the most strict, that it should be done with your presence without fail (unless you decide not to have it happen). I think that a ‘no’ in for this routine at any time is punishable. I believe that I will have a hard time at adjusting to this one, but feel it necessary for my mindset to reaffirm my role.

Hopefully my ideas have helped you to figure out what you would like to see from me as far as a routine as well. It is going to be a challenge for both of us to get started and then keep going. We both seem to get sidetracked so easily. I hope that I can make you proud one day and successfully learn and follow a routine.