Thursday Question #33: Forcing Your Partner
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Have you ever tried to force your partner to do something during a scene that they didn’t want to do? what was it? What happened?
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Well, that would be “topping from the bottom” wouldn’t it?
The other night we were playing and Master had my arms tied behind me. I was getting into a good headspace when suddenly Master pinched my nipples, very hard. I didn’t like it as my nipples have been unusually sensitive lately and I wasn’t in the mood for that kind of pain.
Now, I could have asked Master to please not pinch so hard and he probably would have let up. Instead, it pissed me off and I expressed myself as such, indicating (non-verbally) that he was *not* to do that again.
Master would have none of that. He continued pinching and squeezing, even adding biting into the mix. I didn’t like it, but not enough to tell him to stop. I knew I had screwed up and was taking my medicine.
And, you know what? It was exactly what I wanted!
The moral is: when you’re naked and tied up with a man you know isn’t going to take any of your shit, the only reason to give him any is if you want it back, in spades. And I don’t think I’d have it any other way!
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This is a tough one. I think it really has been always the other way around. Hmmm…Maybe anything nice? lol My hubby doesn’t much like doin the sweet sentimental stuff. I don’t ever force him to…so he usually doesn’t..
Soes that make since? HAHA
~~jane
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I just wanted to leave a comment so I can follow the responses in email. GREAT TOPIC!!
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When I was with my ex, it was begging to be spanked
Good thing he’s my ex 
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