Archive for June 2008

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Loaning Master Out

In a previous post I talked about the idea of adding another person to this relationship. Master and I still have it up in the air as to whether we would do well in a relationship like that. Nothing more has been discussed because we don’t have any prospective people to consider.
Master and I have [...]

Newly Discovered Blogs

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
slave journal of the kiva
Laani’s Blog
Life of a kajira
The Masochist Coquette
Master [...]

Amateur Porn?

I’ve had this idea bouncing around in my head for almost a year. Several times I’ve talked myself out of it, but it keeps coming back.
Before I met Master I had a yahoo group where people could see pictures of me naked doing all sorts of naughty things. I loved it. It made me feel [...]

Thursday Question #40: FetLife

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What do you [...]

Dr Visit and Labs Scheduled

I went to the Dr yesterday. I think I have found the Dr that will help me lose weight and is working to make sure that no health issues are hindering it. I came prepared with a list of things I wanted him to check into. He sat and listened to me and asked questions [...]

Twisted Monk - High Speed Chest and Arm Tie


Depression and D/s

I went from basic blahs on Friday to full blown depression this weekend. I have battled depression several times in the past and am taking St. John’s Wart to try and balance my moods a bit better. This episode has hit me hard.
It’s all related to my body image I think. I am feeling really [...]

Friday Evening Blahs

Not much of a post here, please don’t expect a lot from me today. Master is acting like he wants to go do something but we can’t think of anything to do. The AC is working extra hard. I hope the next apartment we live in the AC isn’t in the west window baking in [...]

Thursday Question #39: Burnout

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you ever [...]

Discipline and Punishment

Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible that Master has used these [...]

A Myth Newcomers Should Be Aware Off

Reading a Fetlife thread has me thinking about myths that newcomers seem to think about when they learn about BDSM and especially the D/s lifestyle. One in particular that I’ve seen recently….
The lifestyle is not an excuse to sleep around with as many people as possible. It’s not set up like a kid in a [...]

Outside Forces Cause Disconnect with Role and Relationship

Thank god the weekend is here. This week has been the week from hell! Flooding, more flooding, loss of internet with officials saying, “No known date for restoration of services.” Thankfully, we were restored today so my hiatus wasn’t affected at all. I’m exhausted, spent 3 times as much money on gas to go the [...]

No Internet

Due to the floods I do not have internet service at home and work connection is being threatened too. I will return once the interweb pipes get reconnected!

Thursday Question #38: Health and Fitness

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you have requirements [...]

Lack of Concentration

I’m having issues with concentration today. I’m hoping to get better but with all of the floods happening in the area every bit of news I catch is distracting me from doing anything but watch about the weather. I worry about everyone that the floods have displaced. I am troubled about work and the one [...]

My Bruised Boobies

Master and I played yesterday. Master lovingly tied a karada onto me and we tried the flogging cuffs we’ve seen posted by The Knotty Boys on YouTube recently. (They are great. There is no stress to my wrists no matter how hard I pull on them. Having carpal tunnel, that’s a good thing!) He then [...]

Protected: Letter to Master 6-8-08

There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

Considering the Idea of a Third

Recently Master has been bringing up scenarios that involve another submissive in our relationship on a purely part time level. We have tossed around the idea for awhile and I know we will continue to bring up the idea of a third. A lot of times I think it would be fantastic to have a [...]

Thursday Question #37: Voice Training

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Are you voice trained? [...]

A one and a two and a…

Just a short post today. I have a lot of thoughts rolling around in my head; mostly sparked from FetLife and would like to formulate them before I post them. I do need to update everyone on my diet and exercise so here goes!
This week was really good with exercise. I did the Walk Away [...]