Archive for July 2008

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Newly Discovered Blogs

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
Mark Me D
Visiting my Muse
A Kind Dom
Her submissive puppy’s ponderings
The Mystress [...]

Thursday Question #45: Celebrity SM

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
If you could [...]

I’m on Twitter!

If you use Twitter to microblog, feel free to add me. I just joined up! You can also see my most recent tweets on the sidebar 
lunaKM on Twitter!

Topping from the Bottom, again

You have to love it when someone has the guts to say something that really hits home for you. I’ve seen a lot of blogs out there with the submissive is pretty much whining that the Dom isn’t Dom enough and that they don’t give theme enough direction. Or the ones who say that they [...]

Meditation Monday: The Voyage

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes.” -Marcel Proust
I’m at the point in my submission where the new experiences are few and far between and what I need to do now is see what I have in all of its facets and points of interest. [...]

Meditation Monday

Since I no longer have a blogging requirement I have wanted to keep telling my story, my journey, my explorations with myself. I’ve come up with something I hope to make a regular thing, like my Thursday Questions. (Maybe not every week, but still frequent depending on how helpful my readers are!)
What I’d like this [...]

Fetish as a Fad

From FetLife Blog Prompts Group: Do you see the latest trend towards fetish wear and fetish jokes in the media as a fad? Is it a sign that society is accepting kink? Does it have cons as well as pros?
What’s your thoughts?
There is a lot of fetish appearing in media and it has a positive [...]

Thursday Question #44: First Times

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
What was your [...]

Change in Meds

Well, after 3 weeks of nausea with the Prozac and a recommendation from the Dr to try taking it at night I have switched medicines. The nights have been horrible and I just can’t stay asleep, it’s not restful sleep and it’s worrying Master to boot. I’m going to start Celexa on Friday morning. We’ll [...]

Unbalanced Stability makes for a Balanced D/s Relationship

In kaya’s post about Stability in Dominants she brings up that she feels the Dominant in the relationship should be more stable than the submissive. The stability she lists are emotional, financial, career choice and mental. She also wanted to know if our standards for partners, especially Dominants, can be too high.
I’d like to say [...]

Celebrity Service for Master

In a recent thread on a forum I came across the word Celebrity Service as a form of service that you can classify as treating your owner as a celebrity in your service to them. Things such as opening doors, caufferring, ordering their food and handling service personnel all fall under this umbrella. Now I’ve [...]

Thursday Question #43: Collaring Ceremonies

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Did you have [...]

Dr Visit

I went to the Dr yesterday to have my lab work reviewed. I went in thinking two things. Either everything is okay and I’m just having issues losing weight, or that something is wrong and we can fix it.
The results went something like this:
Blood sugar levels: normal, yay I’m not pre-diabetic!
Cholesterol: great! I was very [...]

Preparing for News

I go to the Dr on a few hours to find out the results of all the tests I had taken before I start a Dr led diet and weight loss program. I’m really nervous to find out the results. Part of me hopes for nothing wrong and then the other part wants a reason [...]

Collared vs. Owned

I am collared… does that mean I am also owned? Are the words synonymous or do they have different meanings?
I’ve read several differnet viewpoints on this subject. The arguments appear to be clear and understood.
Those that argue yes, when you are collared you are also owned cement their belief that when you become collared you [...]

Thursday Question #42: Depression and D/s

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Have you ever [...]

Public Displays of Affection

Master and I are quite affectionate towards one another. There isn’t a day that goes by that doesn’t involve romantic and sweet caresses, hugs and touches. This doesn’t stop when we are out and about. He or I will rest our hand on the other’s thigh while traveling, we’ll hold hands in stores and are [...]

Weekend Update

This holiday weekend was pretty good overall. Friday and Saturday were great. I could have traded Sunday in for something better.
First Master and I got to really go at each other sexually and I was hungry for it all. I did a striptease and blow job for him in the living room which he said [...]

That’s an Order

I’d like to think that I’m obedient. Master says I’m a good girl more often than I’ve been disciplined for doing wrong. That tells me I’m doing something right. Right?
Well lately Master has commented on my selective obedience. Things he says, if not said ‘just right’ go into my brain as a suggestion or comment [...]

Thursday Question #41: Patience

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you have [...]