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6 Responses to “Thursday Question #43: Collaring Ceremonies”

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   Sarah Jul 17th, 2008 at 12:38 am

   Luna, honey, you do have timing.

   I’ve been wearing a play collar for a while now. He gave it to me as part of a game: “Right hand or left hand” and I’d have to accept the consequences of whichever I picked. I lucked out and got a lovely macramé hemp collar.

   Whenever we’d reach the end of our time and he’d take it off of me, we’d both be deeply upset. We’ve been talking about a more permanent collar for a while, and just tonight he told me that he chosen his collar for me.

   There is a big national event here next week; Thunder in the Mountains. I’ve dreamed that he would collar me there, where the entire community can see. Because it’s us, there would be rope: my wrists and ankles cuffed as I crawl to him, maybe.

   I want there to be words, but I don’t know what they should be. We’ve talked about that this new collar would mean to us. How much of that will be made public I don’t know. How many of our promises, of the subjugations of this new station, would he want the world to know? I want this to be the first act of a long scene. I want to accept his collar, then his beating. I want him to try something painful that has always been too scary for me, to reinforce the point that I am now his.

   Sarahs last blog post..Imagine, If You Will

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   Mara Tudor Jul 17th, 2008 at 1:25 am

   We did have a collaring ceremony, although it was simple, between the two of us. Basically Master tied me up and made me struggle over to get his collar and bring it back (and believe me, I was *really* well tied up, and it was *really* difficult). The he placed it and locked it around my neck while I was still bound.

   He unbound me and had me serve and pleasure him before we made love (and it was absolutely wonderful!). Afterwards he put the key before me and told me to remove it. I pleaded with him to have it remain on me but he was insistent. I removed it, kissed it, and gave it back.

   He then held it out, asking if I wanted it back (of course I did!). He made me pledge to serve and honor him while I wore it and then placed it back on me, this time while I was unbound.

   It may not sound like much (and I have left out a lot of the details), but it was very erotic for us, bringing all of the things that had been important in our play (and continue to be important) together in a very ritualistic fashion.

   I have not had the collar off since then, and it’s been over a year.

   To answer your second question, I’ve dreamed of being collared for years, ever since I discovered this lifestyle, much the way most girls dream of getting married. I’ve had several Doms ask, but not until Master did I ever even consider saying “yes.” And it was so easy to answer in the affirmative to him!

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   Sarah replied on July 17th, 2008 10:50 pm:

   This is lovely.

   Sarahs last blog post..Imagine, If You Will

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   thisgirl Jul 17th, 2008 at 2:59 pm

   Yes we did, we were at a fetish BBQ a few summers ago, and we got everyone together and announced it, not anything really that fancy just him putting it on me and a few congrats…it was a very special day though TG Xx

   thisgirls last blog post..Now on Fetlife

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   sub Liisa Jul 17th, 2008 at 4:03 pm

   i have a training collar for a month now. i wear it to bed and when i masturbate. i have not met my Dom yet and it is breaking my heart. i want to serve him so badly. he is testing me. Seeing if i am worthy for him and i hope i am.

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   sub Liisa Jul 18th, 2008 at 4:14 pm

   This is so great, i now am going to meet him and bring my collar with me, he will put in on me and train me for 36 hours. i am so pleased to be serving him.

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