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Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
Insatiable Desire
Blogging Slave

Tristan’s Pet
Perfectly Flawed
Blood, Sweat, Tears
Vanilla Impaired
Learning complaisance
Collar’s Adventures [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Are you a [...]

Master and I spent a very long day with some great friends of ours in the BDSM community a week ago. It’s always a chance for me to behave and I seem to be more exacting about getting my rules right and obeying Master when other’s are watching. Generally I make him proud and the [...]

I’m looking for interesting blogs to read! If you have or know of an interesting BDSM related blog I’d love to have a look myself! Share it in the comments please.
–luna

From Submissive Journal Prompts: When was the last time you were punished? How have things changed since then?
First I should remind readers that I define punishment and discipline as different things. In this post, I’m talking about punishment.
The last time I was punished was well over 2 years ago. I hope to never have to [...]

I’ve been trying to make the new apartment feel more like home so that I can settle and love the environment I have set up. Part of this for anyone desiring a home feeling is good curtains. Curtains bring out a character of the home and it’s occupants. Visitors are going to notice the curtains [...]

Exposing who we are as Dominant and submissive around people who aren’t party to what we do is dangerous and inappropriate. They have not consented to be party to a scene by anyone. But when it comes to D/s it is who we are and so it can be displayed without harm for those witnessing [...]

Delano of Delanobound.com and ropedojo.com guest teaches to show a more complex variant on the classic hog-tie.

It’s been awhile since I’ve posted anything about all that is happening so… here goes nothing.
I’ve been working on eating better and it seems to be paying off. I’ve weighed everyday up till we started moving and noticed that my weight was slowly going down. I don’t know where I’m at now, and with it [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
How do you [...]

We are in the process of moving from upstairs to downstairs apartment. Update coming when I find available time. Love you all!
–luna

I came into this lifestyle community with one huge goal in mind: Accepting other people and their various kinks. At the time I was very new to the lifestyle, very new to my flourishing D/s relationship and very unsure of what I wanted as a Dominant, I knew practically nothing really.
So when I started attending [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Have you ever [...]

My diet and exercise update isn’t full of progress I’m afraid. I’ve done more exercise recently than I have in the past but my eating is still out of control. I really need to reign it in and get under 1800 calories a day. The only way to do that is to go hungry sometimes. [...]

Mara asks: When you think “romantic evening” with Master, what comes to mind? What’s been your most romantic evening, or what would you want to see for the future?
When I think a romantic evening with Master is usually entails going out to dinner, gazing intimately into each other’s eyes while we wait for our food [...]

I had this sudden urge in me and I wanted to see it fullfilled. Just weeks ago I would have dismissed urges as just something I can live without. But not today. I wanted, no, needed this.
I turned to Master and asked him for a favor.
“Would you slap me Master?”
“What, like in the face?”
“Yes please, [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you work [...]

I went to the Dr yesterday to find out the results of yet another round of testing. I do not have PCOS, nor do I have Cushings Syndrome. Yay me! I do have a low but not insanely low thyroid count so he is retesting and when he gets the results of that we will [...]

Greenwoman asks: Do you find yourself altering your behavior with each other at all in public settings? If so, how does that look? What are the differences?
If altering our behavior you mean by different than how we act in private then yes. I alter my behavior more than Master does. Master has noted that I [...]

After 2 years we are getting cable again! I will be able to browse the channels, watch the shows we want to watch as they are on and I’m pretty happy with the deal we got. We are also switching to cable internet and I know that Master will be happier with the latency and [...]