Like a Slap in the Face
I had this sudden urge in me and I wanted to see it fullfilled. Just weeks ago I would have dismissed urges as just something I can live without. But not today. I wanted, no, needed this.
I turned to Master and asked him for a favor.
“Would you slap me Master?”
“What, like in the face?”
“Yes please, would you be able to?”
“I think I can accomodate that, come here.”
And so I approached very hesitant and part of me wondering what in the world I was thinking. He was really going to slap me and I was going to feel it.
He asked me if I was okay, that I looked hesitant and I felt it, I really did. But I was committed. He had me bend down to him and present my face. He took me by the chin and tapped lightly on the left cheek.
“Now are you sure?”
“Yes Master.”
He slapped me, not really hard but I could feel the warmth in my cheek. I giggled slightly out of shock and excitment perhaps. Then he slapped again and I shivered inside. I liked it a lot. he continued on my left cheek and then switched to my right. Oh yes I was feeling so very under his control. I wanted to kneel in front of him and declare my love and devotion.
It was a lot like when he pulls my hair. I feel so docile, so submissive and so very much in his control.
–luna
I'm luna, KnyghtMare's submissive since 2004. I'm a BBW with brown hair and blue eyes. I've been married, separated, almost divorced now; living with my Master.
Master placed his permanent collar on me January 27, 2006. I'm learning and growing into the perfect submissive for him. I'm changing my behaviors, my attitude and my thought processes to become a better person.
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Hot! I was very surprised that I like face slapping, but it’s something I really love that my Dom does. As you say it makes me feel really submissive to him.
Ive tried that and I have to say its not for everyone. I deply respect those who can get into it or enjoy it. I myself tried it 3 different times really wanting to enjoy it but instead found it brings out anger in me. I’m just glad my Master now dosent get into that.
Face slapping has been on my list of hard limits for some time. But I’ve been weakening lately. Now I find out that you like it. Oh dear… my wall is crumbling…
Well, you could always try it once and see how you feel and still keep in mind that it may be a hard limit afterwards. Curiosity always gets me.
Face slapping done properly can allow a submissive to find her place quickly. I had one slave/play partner who referred that we begin by face slapping. She said it helped change her mindset from working mom to submissive very quickly. That the slaps drove out her everyday cares/worries/thoughts and allowed her to be free to be submissive.
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It was a limit for me as well. The first few times I was excited by it but then broke down and balled my head off. Now, I enjoy it. I feel more owned when my Dom slaps my face and it has become a comforting feeling.
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Master has done this to me as well. He has never slapped me full force, as I think He would knock my head clean off… but gods is it arousing. And as you stated it makes me really docile, very quickly. A lot of people don’t like to talk about this. Slapping everywhere else seems fine, but not in the face. Thank you for bringing this subject up.
I agree that a lot of people don’t like to talk about it. In fact, Master and I decided that we won’t even share this with our local groups. Only select special people will find out. I’ve seen plenty of negativity surrounding face slapping.
This is the first time i’ve come across this topic. i will admit that during a session one day, i had the overwhelming need to ask Master to slap my face. i thought i was truly crazy so unfortunately i did not. Perhaps now when the need arises i will as i know there are others that enjoy it so and i know that i am not so crazy afterall.
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My girlfriend often asks me to slap her face shortly after i begin to pull her hair during sex. Ive explored different aspects of dominating her but have never understood why the slapping, particularly on her face added so much to the experience for her.
Thanks for the insight.
I never knew face slapping was so taboo! Even in the BDSM world! My first taste of bdsm was when my husband and I started wrestling around and I very lightly tapped his cheek and pulled his hair. His immediate response was to flip me, pin me, place one hand on my chest and with the other he returned me light tap on the cheek. All of the sudden I got a huge rush! I was a little embarrassed about wanting to be slapped. But it was soooo relaxing. So I grabbed his hand and presented my face to him…
After that night I thought I was a FREAK! But cum to find out there are many people that enjoy face slapping as well. If you haven’t tried it, you should. If is scares you then have it done lightly so it’s just for the sake of the motion and not just for the SLAP! part.
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