Mara asks: When you think “romantic evening” with Master, what comes to mind? What’s been your most romantic evening, or what would you want to see for the future?

When I think a romantic evening with Master is usually entails going out to dinner, gazing intimately into each other’s eyes while we wait for our food to be served and having wonderful conversation. Coming home we are affectionate and cuddly, maybe watching TV or a movie. Maybe we have sex. Maybe we play. What’s important for me to consider it romantic is the intimate connection. The looks, the touching, the time we spend with each other.

We have a date night ever other Friday (payday). This is important to us because 1. We are out of food at home and eating out is a highlight of the end of the payweek and 2. we connect during this time after a week of working apart. It brings the weekend out for us.

I find the most romantic episodes don’t involve sex or play. Master can be very romantic and he likes to make sure my needs and desires are taken care of. I find that very sexy and romantic. We are both affectionate and loving and I enjoy sitting with him and being close more than anything else we do.

–luna

Meditation Monday is for me to be able to see my relationship through your eyes. I do hope to get questions or thoughts so that I can continue to journey. Please feel free to comment here with questions, or if you want to be more private, use my contact page up at the top and email me. I’d love to know your thoughts and hear your questions.