Thursday Question #50: Natural or Developed Submission
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I have always been submissive, at least in the bedroom. It’s always been more than a bit of a point of contention with the men in my life, as I’m not at all submissive outside of the bedroom.
I’m working on being more submissive outside of the bedroom, because even I think that I can be a bit too much of a bitch sometimes!
First, I want to say thanks for the add to your blogroll! Now to share my thoughts on the question….I’ve always been drawn to submission, especially sexual submission, but now we’re taking it out of the bedroom and I’m learning to apply my submission to Daddy in my everyday life. Daddy and I both are trying to live the 24/7 lifestyle, or as close to 24/7 as is humanly possible so now my submission is being developed in that way.
Rose
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Romantically, I have always been submissive/a submissive. I am a lesbian, and finding a Domme who fits has been a problem until recently.
I’m in a perpetual state of subspace these days . I am easy-going outside the romance arena, and can/will be submissive there, with someone who desires such. I can also be quite dominate (l/c on purpose, because I am so not, but I CAN do it if need be, just not so good at it romantically. I am also quite servile.
My partner & I have been together for the better part of 20 years, starting when I was 17. We recognized that our bond was permanent & “different” even then; we have always called ourselves brother & sister. I am naturally submissive, but my loving brother is my perfect balance, and I have found how unhappy and fragmented my life is without him.
Our relationship has drawn criticism for a very long time because I place my body and spirit in his hands. The most beautiful part of our relationship, is that while I am his to command, it is he who is enslaved. After 20 years, our sex life continues to become more amazing, our bond closer.