BDSM is Love

Master is great. He’s pleased with what I’m learning, he praises my progress, never forgets (almost) to say thank you for something he has requested. I feel like I’m treated like a princess or an angel. And sometimes I feel like I’m a gently used submissive. Don’t get me wrong, I love how he makes [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
What’s the hardest [...]

DSM Revision Petition
The DSM Revision Petition is gathering signatures from individuals and organizations calling on the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to adhere to empirical research when revising the diagnoses in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM).
Statements currently within the DSM Paraphilias criteria are contradicted by scientific evidence therefore NCSF must conclude that [...]

I’d hate to think that it’s inevitable, but sooner or later we may have to encounter law enforcement at our door due to nosey neighbors or medical personnel because of a mishap when playing. Knowing what to say to these authorities could keep you safe, protected and make sure that they have some understanding as [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: Do you know what a Butler’s book is? Do you use one as a part of your service? If not, do you have a book to keep track of frequent guests’ preferences so that you can cater to their needs and desires each time they visit?
I had never heard of a [...]

If you are submissive you have likely been in trouble in public. It’s just a matter of time and mood for most of us. A lot of times it isn’t intentional either. And in those moments as you look your owner in the eye you know that s/he will decide to either chastise you there [...]

I’m testing a new design that I’d like your input on. If you read me via RSS or another medium, please stop on by and let me know what you think!

When Master says to talk about something on here, it usually means he wants me to think about it more than I have, or that something has happened that he feels I would benefit by expressing. Last night has asked me to talk about something that happened the other night and my thought process on [...]

I know it’s been awhile since I posted and thank you to Kari for sending me an email with her concern for my absence. I’ve had a few days off work and never really sat down at the computer for long. How great is that!
I have a lot of wonderful ideas on how to improve [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Do you have [...]

Master and I have started a new weekly service item that turns out to be very nice for both of us. Every Sunday evening, I prepare a foot soak for Master and then I dry, massage and lotion them. It takes care of any rough spots and I check his tender instep for aches and [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Does your submission [...]

I was invited to join Kinky Sex Link in thier efforts to  create a BDSM collaborative blog almost a month ago. It took me that long to watch it grow and develop and decide for myself if there was anything I could really add to it. Last night I took the plunge and accepted the [...]

If you are not a regular reader of Under His Hand you wouldn’ t know this, but kaya was selling her BDSM related books before moving and well…. I bought the whole lot! I’m so very excited because they arrived shortly before I moved myself and now they sit in my BDSM book cupboard waiting [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
Insatiable Desire
Blogging Slave

Tristan’s Pet
Perfectly Flawed
Blood, Sweat, Tears
Vanilla Impaired
Learning complaisance
Collar’s Adventures [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Are you a [...]

Master and I spent a very long day with some great friends of ours in the BDSM community a week ago. It’s always a chance for me to behave and I seem to be more exacting about getting my rules right and obeying Master when other’s are watching. Generally I make him proud and the [...]

I’m looking for interesting blogs to read! If you have or know of an interesting BDSM related blog I’d love to have a look myself! Share it in the comments please.
–luna

From Submissive Journal Prompts: When was the last time you were punished? How have things changed since then?
First I should remind readers that I define punishment and discipline as different things. In this post, I’m talking about punishment.
The last time I was punished was well over 2 years ago. I hope to never have to [...]

I’ve been trying to make the new apartment feel more like home so that I can settle and love the environment I have set up. Part of this for anyone desiring a home feeling is good curtains. Curtains bring out a character of the home and it’s occupants. Visitors are going to notice the curtains [...]