BDSM is Love

Leatherstrap asks me:
I played with a lady tonite who set out very clearly that she wanted to play rough - in fact she wanted to be brought to tears - She had a safe word which she didnt call but as the session went on it became apparent that she wasnt well - I stopped [...]

People can come by and ask me questions about anything and I’ll try to answer them honestly and as best I can. I don’t consider myself an expert at all but I do have a pretty good grasp of some things. Here’s a question that was asked awhile back and my response.
I’m so glad I [...]

I’m so speechless! I got a wonderful thank you letter in my email this morning that had me feeling so very special. I’d like to share it with everyone and tell the person that sent it, “I’m honored, thank you.”
I came across your site trying to find answers to how I should be for and [...]

OK folks! No one told me one way or another whether my sidebar was cluttered so…
I have made a blogroll page on this blog so that the sidebar can be a bit more clear and so that I can add all of my LiveJournal friends to my list! So, come on over, ask to have [...]

…have my sponsors all gone? I’ve had people say they were going to pledge but haven’t yet. It makes me nervous. Should I lower my goal? Is it way out of my league? Are people not wanting to pledge? I have 19 days left people, crack open those wallets!
Thank you so much to everyone who [...]

Recently I got a wonderful email from an anonymous person that made me choked up. It was so sweet and wonderful to know that my blog is not only helping me, but it’s helping others. Here’s a snippet of what she said;
When reading your blogs I feel that I can connect to you. I can [...]

This is why I have friends like all of you. After my last post, which I was really short in and grumpy and all out not myself, kaya posed a question that got me thinking. Quite common when she says something though. I rarely leave her blog without thoughts of my own.
A bit of background [...]

Well, if you hadn’t noticed I’ve not posted here much this week. My domain may have been down for you temporarily. I had to change my DNS server. Sensual Service was down longer and may still be down for some of you. It will come back up (hopefully before Sunday’s posting of journal prompts) [...]

Thank you so much to everyone who has commented on my personal essay about golden showers. They have really helped me get a handle on my thoughts and curiosities as well as seeing other people’s reactions and reasons for participating or not. This blog will of course be the first place I share what may [...]

I sit here in a countdown. As I’ve shared; I’m in some form of butt plug training, however without an appropriate butt plug that stays in place it’s quite a challenge. My ass muscles are playing ‘ins and outs’ with my plug in a never ending effort for comfort. I have 30 mins. I’m very [...]

Work was so very busy! I can’t imagine doing all that I did today in just 4 hours; thank God I now have 8. I look forward to finally getting everything done that I’ve always wanted to. Now to just catch up on my sleep pattern… (Suze promises that it will get better, someday….) It [...]

I’m so happy to be working full time soon. It’s scary to start planning what I want to do with what extra cash we will have. I want to pay up on the bills, move to a better apartment and fix my car. Master asked me what sort of things I wanted to spurge on [...]

I’ve been reading a new blog that is a branch off of another I’ve come to love reading. The training of His slut is the beginning of a new life for good girl… she is training to be a lifestyle submissive. This has brought me to more thinking about how my training down the [...]

I’m posting once again for two reasons:

I’m reading blogs and something struck me, thus the post.
My personal server is down, Master is still sleeping and so I can’t work as all my work is on the server.

So, I’m here to talk about discipline. I read The Punishment Book on occasion, more out of fascination than [...]

Great morning to everyone! I woke, turned on the Christmas music and feel overall bright and cheery today. I sure hope it continues. I’ll be making Christmas cookies today and making sure every room is clean so that I don’t have to push myself nearer to Christmas. Master and I are staying home and no [...]