BDSM is Love

From FetLife Blog Prompts Group: Do you see the latest trend towards fetish wear and fetish jokes in the media as a fad? Is it a sign that society is accepting kink? Does it have cons as well as pros?
What’s your thoughts?
There is a lot of fetish appearing in media and it has a positive [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
List 5 things that you are grateful for in your life.
1. I’m grateful for my ability to change. Without the desire to make my life better and more fulfilling I would be stuck working at a dead end job with no happiness in my life. Since I’ve been able to change my [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
How do you feel about the idea of ‘breaking a slave’?
For me, the idea of breaking a slave goes against the natural progression of a submissive/slave. I perceive it as a forced breakdown of someone’s own will, their own attitude and sometimes their own thought process.
What generally results is a blank canvas [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“All my soul follows you, love encircles you and I live in being yours.” -Robert Browning
What does it mean to you to be “someone’s”?
I love this quote and when I put it in the prompts I knew I wanted to talk about how it strikes me and places me in my happy [...]

I’m back to work today. I’m fighting the desire to sleep since I messed with my sleep cycle during vacation. I’m wearing the butt plug for training, I have the nipple clamps to endure as well. I do this so that Master is appeased and so that I can learn to get used to what [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“‘Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you…’
‘Does it hurt?’ asked the Rabbit.
‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real, you don’t mind being hurt…It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: Do you work outside the home? How does that affect your dynamic? What do you do to define your work mindset from your submissive one?
Obviously if you have ever read my blog then you know that I work outside the home every day. I work in an office setting and leave [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: If you came with an instruction manual what would be in it?
Well, this is a hard one. Let’s see…

Bind tightly to keep in the mood.
Tease endlessly even if not apparently in the mood.
Stir quietly to a high frenzy.
Accept that the mood of the submissive may not be acclimated to ever situation.
Sex [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts

Do you identify with a particular type of animal? Do you use any kind of pet or animal interactions with your owner?

 
I’d have to say that if I identify with any one animal it would have to be a cat. When I’m very happy about something I’ve even remarked that [...]

I’m still waiting. Waiting to hear if the client of my work contract wants to up my hours to full time. They had a meeting today where this was a key part of the conversation. My boss has not called me, it’s late and I don’t think I’ll hear anything until Monday. This is torture. [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: How do you see yourself in one year? Five years? Ten years? Why do you see yourself that way?
In one year I see myself as successfully loosing some weight. I’ll feel happier and healthier. I also hope to see myself moving closer to the submissive that I want to be. I [...]

Gratitude. I see it in Gratitude Tuesdays on blogs all over the web. I see it in cards and stories this time of year. Sadly, I rarely see it throughout the year; some reason it’s only now, when it’s “scheduled” or “planned”. I’ve been reflecting lately on what I’m grateful for and how I can [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: Write out three of your favorite sexual fantasies. If this is new to you, make one up now.Writing out my sexual fantasies is to admit that I have them. I’m certain that I do but I’ve keep them pretty quiet, even to Master. I’m sure he’d entertain them. So, maybe I [...]

Master made a funny tonight. We were watching CI: Law and Order when the criminal said something to the tune of, “I made him mine 22 times, forever.. ” and I asked Master if we count. He retorted, “I get used more than some people use google.”
I’ve gone back into doing my diet [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person submissive?
A submissive is a man or woman that for whatever reason chooses to follow the directions, adjust to behavior modifications and submit to the power of another. These things can include but are not limited to sexual submission, domestic service, platonic recession of power, work environment with a [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person Dominant?
A Dominant carries specific qualities for me that express who he is to the submissive and to the community. These qualities are those that I look for in any person that says they are Dominant.
The first one of importance to me is self control. A Dominant shouldn’t upset [...]

From Kindlings:
Would you want to be trained (in whatever areas applied) by someone who you were not owned by? Why or why not? In what areas?
Yes I think I would like to be trained by someone other than my owner in a few areas. The only reason I would is because I know my Master [...]

From Kindlings:
Do you crave structure in your life, or are you more of a ‘go with the flow’ sort of person?
I definitely crave structure. I prefer to have lists and organized things throughout the day to just winging it. I am a to-do list maker and tend to stick to it pretty well. Within my [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“Do not be like servants who serve their masters expecting to receive a reward; be rather like servants who serve their master unconditionally, with no thought of reward.” - Antigonus of Sokho
The ideal in this post is something I’m constantly struggling with. I like it when I get my reward, ya know? [...]