BDSM is Love

I came into this lifestyle community with one huge goal in mind: Accepting other people and their various kinks. At the time I was very new to the lifestyle, very new to my flourishing D/s relationship and very unsure of what I wanted as a Dominant, I knew practically nothing really.
So when I started attending [...]

Being that I’m a masochist, I love pain. I’ve never really thought about it or analyzed what that means really, but reading other people’s blogs has always helped me see that saying I’m masochist is just another huge personal term in BDSM as a whole. So, to think it though, this is what being a [...]

Dear Master,
It’s almost Christmas and I think I may have found my happy thoughts again. I’m sorry you had to endure a long bout of depression and crankiness. I’ve felt pretty good the past few days. The stirring of my sexual desire is definitely a good sign. I’ll be ravaging you soon enough I [...]

Tomorrow it was going to be just Master and I and a huge turkey breast with all the fixings. Now, at the last moment we will be hosting our good friends from the South, Selena and her husband. They will be in town visiting their family for dinner but wanted to come visit us after. [...]

Numerous times on this blog I have mentioned just how patient Master is with me. I’ve battled a lot of emotions and physical struggles when all he wanted was to play, tie me up and spank me. He’s been quietly waiting for me to be in the mood so that the sex and blow job [...]

The NLA-I DVP is a project of the National Leather Association. They began in 1998 with the purpose of educating the BDSM community about the difference between consensual kinky play and abuse. They help victims seek safety and help and provide a large base of resources for the scene. They were the first SM organization [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Joueny. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like.
This will be a regular weekly addition to the site, come back often and see what people have to say!
This week’s question:
What has been the hardest thing for you to accept [...]

Well, if you hadn’t noticed I’ve not posted here much this week. My domain may have been down for you temporarily. I had to change my DNS server. Sensual Service was down longer and may still be down for some of you. It will come back up (hopefully before Sunday’s posting of journal prompts) [...]

So…
It’s been one month since I set my resolutions. How am I doing you wonder? I’ve got the update. It’s not that great really, but there’s always progress to be made, ya know?
The Personal Growth resolutions:

Brushing my teeth isn’t going well. I do about twice a week *sigh* How gross I know. This month I [...]

Things are going well in Master’s house. We’ve been working through my issues that occurred this weekend and the feelings I have, the feelings I don’t have and the continuous issue with trust. I’ve done a lot of thought on it myself since this past weekend and what I can say now is that I [...]

Gratitude. I see it in Gratitude Tuesdays on blogs all over the web. I see it in cards and stories this time of year. Sadly, I rarely see it throughout the year; some reason it’s only now, when it’s “scheduled” or “planned”. I’ve been reflecting lately on what I’m grateful for and how I can [...]

luna wishes you all a wonderful day and blessed sleep. I thank you all for following me as I raised money for a cause that’s near and dear to me. The Institute for 21st Century Relationships will continue to bring awareness and education to the public about alternative loving consensual relationships because of your help. [...]

For some people pain is pleasurable. For me it certainly is. I’m terrible at discussing the how’s and whys so I’m defering to an essay from Pyschology Today:

Master asked for a blowjob tonight in between posts. Instead of willingly doing so I gave him a face and said “no.” He has now requested that I blog about why I said no.
I’m not supposed to say no, I’m supposed to be willing to do anything to please Master whenever he wishes. It’s a [...]

Conduct, and support the conduct of, primary research into viable alternative ways to carry on intimate relationships, and into the development of a set of valid constructs [...]

Today starting at 8am and writing for the next 24 hours, I will be raising money for charity. I’ve sent messages before about it and while the response I’ve had is minimal I’d like to give it one more go.
The charity that I’m trying to raise money for is the Institute for 21st Century Relationships. [...]

Master just told me I should say that more often. I’m sure there are many things he wants me to do more often.
Master and I are recovering from some “Master’s whore” time. Boy was it wonderful to feel so well used and into my part. I feel like myself and that I can be free [...]

I’m getting better. I had a bit of normalcy today. I was handed my next job for my freelance work, and since I’m allowed to use the computer for work, I worked as best I could today. It felt good to be able to do something normal, something that felt like me, and not some [...]

Service is one of the most primary, the most basic of terms within the BDSM realm. Service can loosely be defined as an act or work done by one individual to the benefit another, but what does service mean within the BDSM realm.
The need to serve is the most fundamental desire within a slave; the [...]

This goes a lot into the your kink isn’t my kink. It’s all about acceptance. There is no one right way to do anything. There may be safety issues that need to be followed, but other than that do as you will, find what pleases you and your partner and stick to that. Don’t let [...]