BDSM is Love

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Tomorrow it was going to be just Master and I and a huge turkey breast with all the fixings. Now, at the last moment we will be hosting our good friends from the South, Selena and her husband. They will be in town visiting their family for dinner but wanted to come visit us after. [...]

Master and I had planned a bit of bondage this week so when it actually happened on Thursday I was really happy. Master wanted to try something new; a rope cage. Master said he will post pictures on his blog this weekend, so stay tuned to that! (Edit: It is now posted, go to it [...]

The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?”
No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post.
The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot of things. [...]

I’m amazed at how I can go from not enough time in the day to get work done to having so much time on my hands that I’m inventing things to do so that I don’t get bored. I feel that this is just an adjustment period and I do feel that the time will [...]

As most of you already know, I post rather regularly. My rules actually state that I post every Monday, Wednesday and Friday with a handwritten letter to Master (reposted later that week) on Sunday. So where was my post yesterday?
I fell asleep. I fell asleep at 7:30! This week was my first week of having [...]

“Care for a little side adventure, Master?” I asked on our way home from the munch.
It was dark and the ride was long. I had just purchased a red sexy nightie and it was driving Master wild the thought of me wearing it when we got home. He would grab my hand and place it [...]

This is an elementary post, those of you that know what BDSM stands for will be nodding and smiling. Those of you that have no clue what I’m talking about, I do hope you will learn what BDSM is and accept it.
BDSM is an acronym, a very large collection of words are within these for [...]

OK, so as I promised, yesterday Master and I had a talk while riding back from a bar meet. He says it is time for him to assert more control, that he isn’t comfortable with how he is with me. He wants to be more dominant and in turn to make me more pliable and [...]

I have been battling a disinterest in sex lately. I feel terrible that I haven’t really felt like being touched or touching at all. I’m sure there are outside influences as to why I’ve been so antisex lately. I’ve had to sit and figure it out, because I’m tired of feeling like something is wrong [...]

Ok, so I have just sat here for an hour planning out my new bedtime routine to hopefully begin making my life easier. I have taken my tips from FlyLady. I really love her site and thank cinnamon_girl_8 for suggesting it to me. So here is my bedtime routine as I hope to have it [...]