BDSM is Love

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Sometimes when you are itching for some play it’s a very specific type of play that you want. In our relationship I’m free to ask for what I want, but Master does not have to comply. Today I asked Master for some helpless fuck whore time. I wanted to be bound so that I couldn’t [...]

Master would like to use my ass whenever he wants. He also has a plan to have me wear butt plugs on a regular basis to remind me of my place and prepare me for more frequent anal sex and play. A butt plug will allow me to relax better, faster, easier when he wishes [...]

What sexual behavior won’t you do or would do only under certain conditions? Write about those to clarify your boundaries.
This week we talked about sexual limits to your relationship. Here’s what people had to say:
Mara Tudor says:
I am not crazy about anal [...]

Master has agreed to let me come up with writing assignment topics for my weekly assignments on my rules list. I’ve started a mental list and will make an actual list this weekend probably. Of course I’m going to be able to come up with some, but I think that those that read my blog [...]

I hate butt plug training. It’s such a turn off. He reminds me and it just gets me down. Like this evening I was really looking forward to sex since I felt better than this weekend and then he reminds me I have to put this damn rubber thing in my ass. I’m grumpy now, [...]

Well, why I’m into BDSM is a loaded question. There are a few things that lead me down this road. I was not always kinky (or maybe I was ). I was married for 3 years. The marriage was luke warm at best and the sex was miserable. I just attributed it to us [...]

I went out to dinner tonight with some friends. We got on the discussion of our sex lives when this friend expressed her lack thereof with her boyfriend. I piped up that a sex toy would help her if he’s not available. She almost jumped at the idea and off we went to the toy [...]

As I go around the blogland I always come back to one point. Some people are really good at telling stories, others sharing their lives and still others aren’t good for anything but quizes and tag games. (No offense to anyone really, this is just a generality.) I try to figure out where I am [...]

I was beginning to wonder if Master and I would ever play again. It has been at least 2 months since I’ve felt rope binding my wrists or the stinging ache of a spanking. Last night Master asked me if I would like to have some light play. I couldn’t wait. Now, I “owed” him [...]