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I’ve written about anal training before. You might be interested in my beginners post about anal training. My ass is going through a change. Master is preparing it for anytime use. I’m back on the schedule of wearing my butt plug every other night as a part of my bedtime routine. I don’t object to [...]

1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night?
I love morning sex but we only get it on weekends.
2. Better Sex Music: Sade or Marvin Gaye?
Neither, I like Godsmack, NIN and Guns and Roses for sex.

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Video?
I have to choose? I love both!

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr. Doug [...]

Saying no. This is a difficult essay for me. I assume you wanted me to write about when I say no to sexual things. A lot of the time when I say no, it has reason behind it. The rest of the time, I realize it is excuses. How I feel about saying no is [...]

Master would like to use my ass whenever he wants. He also has a plan to have me wear butt plugs on a regular basis to remind me of my place and prepare me for more frequent anal sex and play. A butt plug will allow me to relax better, faster, easier when he wishes [...]

On my way home from work today I was thinking about how far I’ve come since I was collared in February.  I’m amazed at how comfortable I’ve become with my role. I’m more accepting of Master’s rules and his control over me. I don’t fight quite so much. My sexual submission has come leaps and [...]

The nipple clamp training is going nowhere. I can’t get past 5 minutes. Master tried to lift the ring in the middle today and I about panicked. This isn’t fair. I want to please him and I want to be able to take more pain, especially in the nipples where he seems to get the [...]

Sunday night… after anal sex and Master said he was worn out. I had an itch. It was an itch for some bondage sex. Oh god I wanted it. I wrote about my desire in my Letter to him, which he promptly read and turned to me with a semi-hard cock and a grin.
“So you [...]

kaya mentioned something in her post about her nailing fantasy that struck me as something I can talk about. A lot of what she does and says is way beyond my comprehension or realm of understanding. I’m just not that deep yet. But this really spoke to me. She said that as she was preparing [...]

Dear Master,
Anal sex tonight. Yes we will get there. I promised you on Saturday and my body was not agreeable. But today I’m ready and my body is agreeing. I like anal sex you know. No matter how much I sulk and groan about butt plug training I do enjoy when you use me anally. [...]

In an effort to be productive I have worked on The Iron Gate this morning. Just some basic maintenance stuff like adding descriptions to essays and links to hopefully make them more useful to users. I’ve got plans to work on the admin section a bit so that updating the site is a bit easier [...]

Ok, so I have to wear a butt plug every other day for a set amount of time. No big deal right? Right.
Anyone have any tips on how to keep the darn thing IN ? I stand up and out it comes, like my muscles just accept it and relax completely. Ugh. It’s great for [...]

Today is Master’s birthday. It’s a day he’s been planning for about a week. Today I am to be his sex slut whenever he wants me. I have to say yes every time he wants a blow job, I am to be available for all sorts of sexual pleasures and my main goal today is [...]

Dated: 10-15-06
Dear Master,
Ya know, today is my brother’s birthday. This is the brother I don’t really talk about but he is 29 today. Last I heard he was in prison for some type of assault. It’s not surprising. I’ve not seen him since I was 16.
I like to think that I turned out the best [...]

Saying no. This is a difficult essay for me. I assume you wanted me to write about when I say no to sexual things. A lot of the time when I say no, it has reason behind it. The rest of the time, I realize it is excuses. How I feel about saying no is [...]

I know you didn’t expect me to post since I said I was taking a break. Don’t get too excited. I don’t plan to be gone long, but I’m not back yet. This blog is still technically on hiatus, but Master insisted that I finish my story about our play on Sunday, so here it [...]

This one was emailed to me just awhile ago and I decided it would be on the half hour post and not a spur post.
As many of you are curious to know I’m sure… what do I do? As in, I assume, what sexual things do I enjoy. Master and I have sex a lot, [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
What would you like to learn about your sexual self?
Curiously I’ve got a lot of things I’d like to learn about myself and my sexuality. A few of these are:
Can I learn to orgasm by penetration alone?
I’d like to learn all my fetishes. *blush* I have on with phallus shaped objects. I’ve [...]

Note: If you want to be pimped this Blogathon, send me an email (not a comment) and I will take a look at your blog. If I like it, you get pimped. If not… well… I’m not as picky as that, it may just be a case of not enough time.
luna@the-iron-gate.com
This is to pimp JADE.
Jade [...]

Master and I had a wonderfully hot passionate sex session last night. He has given me permission to share details if I so wish, but I don’t Maybe later on, while I do enjoy juicy details as much as the next person I just have to be in the right mood to write them. [...]

I was beginning to wonder if Master and I would ever play again. It has been at least 2 months since I’ve felt rope binding my wrists or the stinging ache of a spanking. Last night Master asked me if I would like to have some light play. I couldn’t wait. Now, I “owed” him [...]