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I’m not horny today. Master is obviously very horny. So, what does he do but ask me to write about sex to get me turned on. I don’t think I’ll get turned on just by writing about sex or even thinking about sex. There is something today that’s just telling me to be nonsexual. I’m [...]

I’ve gained 5 lbs in one week. Surprising right? Well not as bad as the fact that I asked Master to be my conscience and I never listened to him. He’d ask me if I really needed to eat something and I’d just go ahead and do it. It’s my own darn fault and like [...]

Everyone is doing it so I thought I would too!
This month you can ask me any question you’d like and I’ll answer it in a post during this month. No limits here, ask whatever you’d like!
Ask your question on this post
–luna

People can come by and ask me questions about anything and I’ll try to answer them honestly and as best I can. I don’t consider myself an expert at all but I do have a pretty good grasp of some things. Here’s a question that was asked awhile back and my response.
I’m so glad I [...]

The goals of any submissive are as varied as the relationship as to which they tend. I’ve been given the task of naming the goals I currently have within my submission and then explain how I plan on working towards them. A daunting task indeed! I’ve really not given it much thought honestly before now [...]

I can with all confidence say that I am submissive. I may have lost my way for awhile and it did affect our relationship severely. You ask me again what makes me submissive and I really can’t find anything more to add to what I have already said once before. To reiterate them here; my [...]

I’ve got a new feature here at my blog. It’s on a separate page, titled Ask Me. You can post your questions to me and I will attempt to give you an answer. I’ll take just about any question you can toss at me, and since the questions are moderated, only the ones that get [...]

Kaya had a moment today where she talked about begging and how she has problems with it. I’d like to say that I have problems too, but not anymore.
It has taken a lot of work. Master insists that I beg for a lot of things and I think that most Dominants choose this route to [...]

That’s right folks; we’ve come to the wee hours of the morning where traveling browsers of bloggers will be more of the older crowd so what I’m going to do is open up my blog for sex questions! Now, they don’t have to be kinky in nature. I have regular sex too! I’ve done just [...]

Here’s some of my favorite BDSM scene music. Remember BDSM is romantic, fun, sexy, erotic and NOT abusive. Have fun!
Erotic Sounds - Great collection of mood music.
BDSM Scene -Music divided into categories
Submissive Loving - a great music selections.
I want to thank Luna for allowing me to be a guest blogger. I’ve really enjoyed it and hopefully [...]

I’m still taking questions, feel free to ask me anything!

Describe your ideal day without anything sexual going on. (Would you want to go for a picnic, bake bread, go to a wine-tasting, etc.)
My ideal day is really a lot like a romantic interlude. I would love to wake up next to Master [...]

What is one of your goals at the moment as a submissive?
A huge goal I have right now was actually talked about a little bit in my post last night. I hope to stop questioning Master and doing something without asking questions, saying no or trying to put it off. I’ve got to accept that [...]

To continue on the same thread that has been swimming around this blog for the past week; Master and I had a discussion about my eagerness to say no and what it means for our relationship. If you’ve been reading you know that I’ve been having problems with obedience. Master tells me he wants something [...]

I have had someone ask me a question, so I thought I’d answer in a post. Especially since I think this is going to take some thought.
How did you know that he was the one for you?
Well the simple answer is, “I didn’t.” There were a lot of cues that we were similar and had [...]

Work was so very busy! I can’t imagine doing all that I did today in just 4 hours; thank God I now have 8. I look forward to finally getting everything done that I’ve always wanted to. Now to just catch up on my sleep pattern… (Suze promises that it will get better, someday….) It [...]

Dated 11-3-06
Dear Master,
Last night was really hard on me. I’ve been stressing about a lot of things lately and disappointing you yet again really hurt. I’ve got so many problems with giving you blowjobs; some of which I’m still realizing. My mind freezes when you ask me to suck your off. I have some hesitation [...]

It happened yet again. I can’t even remember all of the heated discussion however I can remember the spark that set it all off.
Wednesday I asked Master to help me with a bit of code that I didn’t know how to do. I had gone online and someone had offered their script for it but [...]

I’ve been a very bad girl lately. It’s really inexcusable; as everything is with me lately. I’ve been disappointing, both to myself and to my love and Master. First, if you notice the date of this blog, I am quite late posting, as my rules state it is supposed to be every other day. It [...]

I’m feeling a little better today. I’ve worked hard at paying more attention to Master and my emotions. I want to back up to normal self as soon as possible. Trust me though, I was and still am quite down at my loss of libido. I used to rival any man at the amount of [...]

Ok, so this is floating around in blogland right now and while I don’t know if people read my blog or care to comment, I’m putting it here anyway.
You can now ask me any 6 questions, no matter how rude, open, blunt, sexual, yadda yadda.
You get the drill. I know you are curious about something
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–luna