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From My Bottom Smarts
What do you believe constitutes “topping from the bottom?” Have you or your partner ever done this? If so, how was the situation handled? Are there occasions where “topping from the bottom” is acceptable or even desirable?
My definition of topping from the bottom is when the submissive begins to instruct the dominant [...]

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I seem to be having a problem posting to the blog on Friday. This is the second week in a row that Master has asked me to post my Friday post on Saturday. I hope this doesn’t become a habit of mine. For some reason I just feel really wiped out on Friday. I’ve been [...]

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From Bonnie’s Spanko Brunch:
When receiving a spanking, what sounds do you or your partner make? Does the spankee scream, cry, shout, beg, whimper, laugh, moan, or maybe something else? To what extent does the reaction depend upon the circumstances (such as the reason for the spanking, the severity, the implements employed, words used by the [...]

My blog is 3 years old today (well, yesterday). I can’t believe I’m still going strong and have things to say. It’s been a huge part of my submission development and growth as a person for Master. It was started when we got together and it’s had ups and downs just like I have. Please [...]

What sexual behavior won’t you do or would do only under certain conditions? Write about those to clarify your boundaries.
This week we talked about sexual limits to your relationship. Here’s what people had to say:
Mara Tudor says:
I am not crazy about anal [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
A Bad Man in a Bad Place
Alphaslave
anglefire’s journal
At times restless
Lolidoll
Dominate My [...]

In preparation for the Newly Discovered Blogs that come out the end of the month, I have gone through my blogs and removed dead links and blogs that haven’t been updated in over 2 months. I will be checking the favorites to see if any of those should be moved to ‘Blogs that Link [...]

Well folks, I’m doing good. Master has commented a couple times about how relaxed I appear. I don’t feel as stressed as I usually am. Either I’m getting over this hurdle or the St John’s Wart is doing the trick. I’d like to think I’m doing this on my own, but a bit of natural [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
Gracie’s Playground
Married Man’s fucktoy
Secret Desire
My Fuck Toy
Pain Healer
Puppy Tales

Numerous times on this blog I have mentioned just how patient Master is with me. I’ve battled a lot of emotions and physical struggles when all he wanted was to play, tie me up and spank me. He’s been quietly waiting for me to be in the mood so that the sex and blow job [...]

Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts asks this week:
Have you a favorite room in your home or a favorite piece of furniture where spankings most often occur? Does the location ever depend upon the purpose of the spanking? Do the implements or rituals change when spankings are performed in different rooms? If you could construct [...]

Bonnie from My Bottom Smarts has invited me and over 100 other bloggers to greet and show the love for our lurkers in the second annual Love Our Lurkers Day. You know who you are! I love knowing that so many people read my blog and possibly get some interesting information from it. I get [...]

Bonnie asks these questions during her Spanko Brunch this week:
Have you and/or your partner counted strokes during a spanking? If so, did it enhance the experience? To what extent is counting a regular part of your repertoire? If you haven’t counted before, would you consider doing so? Why or why not?
I have counted strokes before. [...]

OK folks! No one told me one way or another whether my sidebar was cluttered so…
I have made a blogroll page on this blog so that the sidebar can be a bit more clear and so that I can add all of my LiveJournal friends to my list! So, come on over, ask to have [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog!
A submissive story
The thoughts of a masochist submissive
Spiral Submissive
The Lustful [...]

Is there a time when there are just too many blogroll links in the sidebar? If so, am I approaching the limit? Should I just make a page with the blogroll on it? I have so many more blogs I want to add to the list, but have become conscious with the lengthiness of them. [...]

kiana made a good point in a comment on my last post. I’m not very positive thinking. I’ve heard it before, on this blog and in person and it comes as no surprise. I’ve always been pessimistic about everything. It causes me to worry about anything, to assume the worst in events and people and [...]

Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog.
A Farmwife with a Twist
The Warren
The Answering Machine
life as slave kk
Beau
Black [...]