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We had a very stressful talk last night. It involved what happens in scenes with us because almost 50% of them end sooner than one of us would like them to. We have crashed really hard when this happens. The issue has two parts. For the longest time I just attributed it to being new [...]

We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

Dear Master,
It’s almost Christmas and I think I may have found my happy thoughts again. I’m sorry you had to endure a long bout of depression and crankiness. I’ve felt pretty good the past few days. The stirring of my sexual desire is definitely a good sign. I’ll be ravaging you soon enough I [...]

“The 12 Days of Kinky Christmas” by Unknown
On the 1st day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
A Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 2nd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
2 Nipple Clamps and a Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 3rd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
3 Blindfolds, [...]

On Sunday Master took a Nerf football and shoved it in my cunt. Yup, that’s right. It got about half way before it just popped back out, but holy cow it was huge to begin with. Amazing what such a little place can take so much, right?
Master has had a desire for large object insertion [...]

I’ve looked back through the archives lately and notice a trend. I’ve been working on some sexual training for near on 6 months! From blow jobs, to spontaneity and finally nipple clamps. It’s all to please Master and from what I can tell, progress is either non-existent or very very small. Perhaps there are things [...]

I’m back to work today. I’m fighting the desire to sleep since I messed with my sleep cycle during vacation. I’m wearing the butt plug for training, I have the nipple clamps to endure as well. I do this so that Master is appeased and so that I can learn to get used to what [...]

The nipple clamp training is going nowhere. I can’t get past 5 minutes. Master tried to lift the ring in the middle today and I about panicked. This isn’t fair. I want to please him and I want to be able to take more pain, especially in the nipples where he seems to get the [...]

I got a wonderful thank you letter from the National Leather Association-International Domestic Violence Project this morning. Here’s a snippet of what seraphina, the chairperson had to say;
On behalf of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project I would like to thank you personally for your generous gift of time and soliciting donations for the NLA-I [...]

Nipple clamps. Something in everyone’s toybag, right? An item that a lot of people can’t life without. Others have a love/hate relationship with them. I on the other hand am terrified of them. I have never ever been able to go long with them on; I end up screaming in a panic when the pain [...]

There is something so deliciously painful about a titty squeeze. kaya had a fantastic picture of her and her Master squeezing her breasts with vampire gloves. Master today did something that I just love. While he is fucking me he squeezes my breasts so hard they feel like they are going to burst. It’s a [...]

Master commented after my post a few days ago about the spanking we had, that he likes when I post about the play because I don’t generally talk about it with him. He gave a good analogy but right now I can’t seem to remember what it was. The gist was that if I don’t [...]

This one was emailed to me just awhile ago and I decided it would be on the half hour post and not a spur post.
As many of you are curious to know I’m sure… what do I do? As in, I assume, what sexual things do I enjoy. Master and I have sex a lot, [...]

It wasn’t what I had expected when Master told me he was horny and wanted me. I was all ready for some spectacular sex, he had something else in mind. When I entered the bedroom I disrobed and lay on the bed, touching and kissing Master when I could. I have to admit I wanted [...]

Tonight was a 2 fold event. Nothing particularly special to report during the day, just lazying around, enjoying a Law and Order: SVW Marathon. However tonight is what I want to talk about. During sex tonight we pulled out the new nipple clamps after my suggestion to try them out. He applied them [...]

Nipple clamps come in all sorts and shapes, from pinching to grabbing, strong to weak and everything in between. Anything that can grab a nipple and pinch it is a nipple clamp. The basics are clothespins (and the cheapest). The ones in the picture are my favorites: Japanese clover clamps. They have a special trick. [...]