BDSM is Love

The National Leather Association-International Domestic Violence Project needs your help! Relationship violence happens in all types of relationships; I’m taking a stand to being awareness to those in the community that may not be able to see the warning signs or possible victims that just need the push to free themselves. That’s why I’m blogging [...]

Dear Master,
It’s been a fantastic weekend! I’ve never felt so alive and happy to be your sexual submissive than I have this weekend. We had so much fun with the bondage and all the sex I’m so exhausted today. My pussy desires a break but honestly I do want more sex. I guess that’s [...]

It would look nice if I answered my own questions now wouldn’t it?
Master and I have always been a D/s relationship.  He’s not the first relationship I’ve had but the first D/s one; truly. Reflecting back on the way I was raised and the way I thought a relationship should be I’ve never been more [...]

So, you’ve happened upon this blog and it looks interesting, it has a large archive you can’t even imagine combing through but you wonder who in the world this luna is, right?
You’ve come to the right place, because I am she. I’m now almost 30, living in my first real D/s relationship. I’m learning and [...]

The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?”
No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post.
The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot of things. [...]

I’ve had some very enlightening comments to my situation as of late. I do appreciate every comment I’ve gotten and they have really helped me see a few things about myself that just took someone looking in instead of me looking out.
I choose to be submissive; I guess that’s a harder journey than someone that [...]

I’m here. I’m posting, but as I’ve read many times from others… I have nothing to say. I can hope that a river of thoughts rushes past my fingertips so that a post will exist when I am done.
I’m struggling with another headache, nothing like the one that caused me such anguish last week. [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts

Do you identify with a particular type of animal? Do you use any kind of pet or animal interactions with your owner?

 
I’d have to say that if I identify with any one animal it would have to be a cat. When I’m very happy about something I’ve even remarked that [...]

My boss called me up this morning and asked if he could come by. I said sure, I didn’t have any fear of anything wrong, and who would say no to your boss? Well he did my annual review. I did exceptionally well for only being with the company for 7 months (annual reviews [...]

It appears that all this time I thought I was pleasing Master ultimately lead to me being displeasing. Allow me to explain.
Upon becoming Master’s own he gave me the rule that I was not to come without permission. One that I have stuck to as a sacrament. I have never broken that rule. For me [...]

I am submissive. I have qualities in my person and my behavior that lead me to this conclusion. As a part of my essay here, I will discuss my qualities as they are now, how I’d like them enhanced in the development and training I hope to go through. After that I want to [...]

Saying no. This is a difficult essay for me. I assume you wanted me to write about when I say no to sexual things. A lot of the time when I say no, it has reason behind it. The rest of the time, I realize it is excuses. How I feel about saying no is [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person submissive?
A submissive is a man or woman that for whatever reason chooses to follow the directions, adjust to behavior modifications and submit to the power of another. These things can include but are not limited to sexual submission, domestic service, platonic recession of power, work environment with a [...]

For some people pain is pleasurable. For me it certainly is. I’m terrible at discussing the how’s and whys so I’m defering to an essay from Pyschology Today:

Master asked for a blowjob tonight in between posts. Instead of willingly doing so I gave him a face and said “no.” He has now requested that I blog about why I said no.
I’m not supposed to say no, I’m supposed to be willing to do anything to please Master whenever he wishes. It’s a [...]

Well, why I’m into BDSM is a loaded question. There are a few things that lead me down this road. I was not always kinky (or maybe I was ). I was married for 3 years. The marriage was luke warm at best and the sex was miserable. I just attributed it to us [...]

Continuing more on my code of ethics I’ve come to realize that there are submissive code of ethics out there on the net that seem all and good, but not very personal. A common one I see passed around is:
1. I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that [...]

I have started writing a personal submissive code of ethics. I’m not sure how well I will be able to apply myself to following them to the best of my ability but I feel that if they written down I might be more aware of them. For those that may not know, a code of [...]

I had a dream last night of what Valentine’s Day should have been like. It should have included romantic interludes, and affectionate gazes. It should have had time being with each other, so close you could breathe the same air. It should have had climaxes and breaks for exhaustion. It should have let me feel [...]

I received our new toys from BDSM Gear today! Thank you starla and your Master for beautiful new cuffs, thigh cuffs and dreaded gag. The gag wasn’t really my choice, but you do was Master desires right? I got to model the new set for Master last night and he loved it.
Now if you haven’t [...]