BDSM is Love

Today it is all about my attitude. Not that I’m a smart mouth and need it slapped clear off my face, but that I’m very negative. Master has always seen that in me and so have many of the readers of my blog. I don’t want to be negative and can’t really understand why I’m [...]

What can a Dom do to show control over a submissive whether they are live in or not? These ideas have to be keeping in mind that the submissive has to work and be visible in public. They also have to keep in mind male and female submissives.
My mind went nuts over each individual activity [...]

Last night was some of the best sex ever! Master and I are still talking about it in whispers and mumblings. “Damn that was hot last night.” You bet it was.
It started out as just, let’s go have sex. Run of the mill type sex. I crawled into bed and laid on my belly ready [...]

I’m home from work today. I live 30 miles away from work. I have a really low tolerance of dangerous driving conditions and with the ice and snow that is in the area I just didn’t feel comfortable driving in it. My boss did a very good job making me feel guilty and trying to [...]

Christmas Wish
story by luna
(This is fantasy, safety is tossed to the wind for a better story. If you intend to tie someone up, do not leave them unattended!)
KnyghtMare and Luna sat happily in front of the Christmas tree, looking at all the glittering presents. Christmas Eve was a special time and spending it together was [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
List 5 things that you are grateful for in your life.
1. I’m grateful for my ability to change. Without the desire to make my life better and more fulfilling I would be stuck working at a dead end job with no happiness in my life. Since I’ve been able to change my [...]

Reward this week if I reach 60 mins exercise: $5 towards new sofa/futon ($245 to go)
Monday 11-5

Calories: 1923
Water: 65 oz.
Exercise: 0 minutes

Today I was off balance emotionally. I felt like I couldn’t get enough done, even though I accomplished almost everything on my to do list. I didn’t eat a healthy dinner (I had 3 [...]

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Master and I went to look at an apartment yesterday. It’s 10 mins from work in a small (but larger than we are) town. I liked it a lot. Master pointed out a few down points for him, but there is one up point. The things that he didn’t like were the living room [...]

I swear that if I weren’t so young I would think I’m entering ‘the change’. My moods have been all over the place this week and it’s driving me and Master nuts! Yesterday after a very successful and fun blow job (yup!) I crashed. I crashed big time. I’m stressed about my weight and the [...]

The nipple clamp training is going nowhere. I can’t get past 5 minutes. Master tried to lift the ring in the middle today and I about panicked. This isn’t fair. I want to please him and I want to be able to take more pain, especially in the nipples where he seems to get the [...]

It would look nice if I answered my own questions now wouldn’t it?
Master and I have always been a D/s relationship.  He’s not the first relationship I’ve had but the first D/s one; truly. Reflecting back on the way I was raised and the way I thought a relationship should be I’ve never been more [...]

As most of you already know, I post rather regularly. My rules actually state that I post every Monday, Wednesday and Friday with a handwritten letter to Master (reposted later that week) on Sunday. So where was my post yesterday?
I fell asleep. I fell asleep at 7:30! This week was my first week of having [...]

How long will I take to learn all that I have to learn? When will Master be completely pleased with my efforts and progress? If it is to be years, do I have the endurance and faith that it will require to continue to grow closer to him, and nearer to the perfection of myself? [...]

stolen from Bootpig
Here’s how it works:
1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, Media Play, iPod, etc.)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that’s playing
5. When you go to a new question, press the next button
6. Don’t lie and try to pretend you’re cool.
Opening Credits: In the End by Linkin Park
“I [...]

“Care for a little side adventure, Master?” I asked on our way home from the munch.
It was dark and the ride was long. I had just purchased a red sexy nightie and it was driving Master wild the thought of me wearing it when we got home. He would grab my hand and place it [...]

Mark off the things you fear. (from danaewhispering)
[x] the dark
[ ] staying single forever
[x] being a parent
[ ] being myself in front of others
[ ] open spaces
[x] closed spaces
[x] heights
[ ] cats
[ ] dogs
[ ] birds
[x] spiders and/or other insects
[ ] driving or being in cars
[x] flying
[ ] flowers or other plants
[ ] being touched
[x] [...]

Today I have been so annoyed with Master. I’m not 100% sure why but it has lead to some very tense moments and I have taken a long drive to get away from my thoughts for the day.
I woke up at 5:30am. I haven’t done so in over a year and I just couldn’t sleep, [...]

I’m depressed. I’ve spent all day on a short fuse and feeling like the world is collapsing in on itself. It could be a number of things bothering me. I am done with school; school has been my routine for over 6 years and now I don’t have to look forward to going back anymore. [...]

Service is one of the most primary, the most basic of terms within the BDSM realm. Service can loosely be defined as an act or work done by one individual to the benefit another, but what does service mean within the BDSM realm.
The need to serve is the most fundamental desire within a slave; the [...]