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The wildest sexual aid I have ever used was…a curling iron; it was also my first.
The most pleasure I have ever had with a foreign object was…um, can it also be that curling iron? Err, have I told you about the colored pencils? No?
The last sexual request I refused was…I didn’t really refuse it, I [...]

When I reflect on where I’ve been and where I’m going I begin to wonder how in the world I got where I am. Five years ago seemed like such a long time ago. I was not on this journey that I am now on. I wasn’t even able to explore more than in front [...]

Well, so no one commented on the Thursday Question this week about when you came out as kinky… does that mean no one is out? to anyone? No one wants to admit that they aren’t or are? Hmmm….
I’m out as kinky to all of my friends, half of my family and select few at work.
As [...]

Thank you so much for all the wonderful comments and thoughts on Soul Mates in my Thursday Question this week. I loved reading each and every one!
My idea of soul mates really did come from fantasy romance novels as a teenager. I loved the idea of a man to come sweep me off my feet [...]

I’m getting it a lot more recently. I can’t explain it really. It takes me completely by surprise and I don’t know how I’m supposed to respond. My heart bounds, my pride swells and I blush ruby red. What is it?
I’m being recognized. If not visually, as soon as someone hears my name their eyes [...]

Christmas Wish
story by luna
(This is fantasy, safety is tossed to the wind for a better story. If you intend to tie someone up, do not leave them unattended!)
KnyghtMare and Luna sat happily in front of the Christmas tree, looking at all the glittering presents. Christmas Eve was a special time and spending it together was [...]

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Yesterday I posted a question about ‘true’-ness.
Is there such a thing as a “true” slave/submissive?
No one left any comments, perhaps we are just not willing to question?
luna says:
I don’t believe there is such a thing. I do think that people confuse the terms true and natural. I do know that there is natural submission and [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
List 5 things that you are grateful for in your life.
1. I’m grateful for my ability to change. Without the desire to make my life better and more fulfilling I would be stuck working at a dead end job with no happiness in my life. Since I’ve been able to change my [...]

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Thanksgiving is just a few short days away and then Master and I will spend a quiet day stuffing our faces with turkey and the trimmings. I’m hoping that we have some Netflix to watch or we can do another marathon movie watching. I know last year we did Harry Potter. Maybe we could do [...]

The following story was a dream I had last night that has carried throughout the day to be several very nice conversations and fantasy reliving with Master. It wouldn’t actually ever happen, as Master and I are devotedly monogamous but it was a hot dream nonetheless.
I enter a rather smallish room and am greeted by [...]

Numerous times on this blog I have mentioned just how patient Master is with me. I’ve battled a lot of emotions and physical struggles when all he wanted was to play, tie me up and spank me. He’s been quietly waiting for me to be in the mood so that the sex and blow job [...]

Here’s some of my favorite BDSM scene music. Remember BDSM is romantic, fun, sexy, erotic and NOT abusive. Have fun!
Erotic Sounds - Great collection of mood music.
BDSM Scene -Music divided into categories
Submissive Loving - a great music selections.
I want to thank Luna for allowing me to be a guest blogger. I’ve really enjoyed it and hopefully [...]

It would look nice if I answered my own questions now wouldn’t it?
Master and I have always been a D/s relationship.  He’s not the first relationship I’ve had but the first D/s one; truly. Reflecting back on the way I was raised and the way I thought a relationship should be I’ve never been more [...]

I told Master I had a hot sexy dream last night and he insisted I write it down so that I won’t forget to tell him about it. Here’s that sexy dream…
I was relaxing in bed reading as I always do; laying on my stomach with the pillows under my chest. I’m nude because of [...]

From The Friday Five
1. What is your favorite board game? Clue, it was always Ms. Scarlett in the Dining Room with a candlestick.

2. What is your favorite card game? Nertz (it’s a made up word for a game my mother taught me, that her mother taught her.) It’s like playing solitaire against many [...]

kaya mentioned something in her post about her nailing fantasy that struck me as something I can talk about. A lot of what she does and says is way beyond my comprehension or realm of understanding. I’m just not that deep yet. But this really spoke to me. She said that as she was preparing [...]

Now that I have my rules laid out, I have to try to start following them. I know that the next few weeks are going to be rocky as I learn them, get used to them and be constantly reminded of things he has initiated. While I am more than ready, I’m also very nervous [...]