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Now that I have my rules laid out, I have to try to start following them. I know that the next few weeks are going to be rocky as I learn them, get used to them and be constantly reminded of things he has initiated. While I am more than ready, I’m also very nervous [...]

With just a little bit of snow on the ground and the wind whipping around like a banshee it makes me feel the magic of Christmas even more. I don’t know or understand why I am looking forward to this holiday any more than previous ones. We don’t have any more money or have any [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: Write out three of your favorite sexual fantasies. If this is new to you, make one up now.Writing out my sexual fantasies is to admit that I have them. I’m certain that I do but I’ve keep them pretty quiet, even to Master. I’m sure he’d entertain them. So, maybe I [...]

Dear Master,
This is the first letter I’ve written you that you haven’t had to read it in pen and ink first. You requested that half of my journal entries be handwritten, because they are more personal that way and the letters have developed out of that. I want you to know that these letters will [...]

What, in your eyes, makes a person submissive?
A submissive is a man or woman that for whatever reason chooses to follow the directions, adjust to behavior modifications and submit to the power of another. These things can include but are not limited to sexual submission, domestic service, platonic recession of power, work environment with a [...]

This is a fantasy. No real play ever happened like this. If you do try this on your own please play safely and with clean partners.
She laid down next to me. She had never touched another woman before and was timid in her first attempts to carress me. I let her explore at her own [...]

I’ll start out by saying that i am in no way shape or form a gorean. That being said, i am curious about your thoughts on Gorean Philosophy. I ask this, because while i am not gorean, and do not wish to be treated as a piece of furnature, i do like a lot of [...]

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After the activity from yesterday my body aches and my mental self feels released. I can say that yesterday something in me clicked right and I felt myself again. No longer did I feel a shell of myself satisfying Master’s needs. I was there in the moment and I wanted to please him as best [...]

I wrote in my fantasy blog about my love of a certain toy used for pussy whipping. Uncanny how it came into reality. Master doesn’t even read that site!
 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/luna_and_sir/  If you are interested.

Master and I had a wonderful play session last night! OMG it was so hot. We have this toy that a friend made [...]

I’ve not done anything this weekend. I should be happy that I’ve not had anything to do but instead I’m hoping I am so busy this next week that I’m exhausted come Friday night. Work means earning money and while I know that freelancing is playing roulette with bills, it will some day end.
I’ve been [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: What sexual fantasies work the best to arouse you?
Sexual fantasy is something that has been pretty quiet in me these days. I miss it. I do have a few really good fantasies that I come back to again and again when I do fantasize.
First one is a purely sensual scene. [...]

I’m feeing a lot better now, thank you for the well wishes. I now have the daunting task of catching up on my homework. I can only hope that this weekend I feel better and better so that I can think well and work towards getting everything done.
I’ve done a lot of fantasizing lately. I’ll [...]

Alright, what you have been waiting for, my anniversary fun this last Friday. (It’s only a portion of it, but the rest is saved for private memories:) )
A fantasy was fulfilled tonight. For our anniversary I was laid upon our kitchen table and slathered with sundae toppings! Strawberry sauce, caramel and hot fudge drizzled all [...]

Master and I went to the gym today. I feel great. I hope that I can keep the motivation I feel right now for exercise and can keep on my diet. I weighed myself again today, which I know that it shouldn’t be an obsession, but I lost 2 more lbs. from my last weigh [...]

Yes and no.
Rape fantasies can be acted out with consensual rules set in place. Usually the Dominant says that they will be doing the rape fantasy (sub must agree to this) within a time frame, a certain week or something, but not what time of day it will happen or how. They should never be [...]

SSC is the mantra that a large portion of the BDSM community live by. It outlines the idea of safety and care for the individual. This is what makes us so different than abusers.
S- Safe. The activities that we participate in should be safe. Each person must be knowledgeable about the activities and aware of [...]

I saw a list like this on Master Dream’s precious treasure’s blog and thought it was a kewl thing. It took me 2 hours to come up with 100 things about me. Enjoy and I hope you learn more than you ever thought you wanted to about me.
1. My name is Jennifer, not Jen, Jenn, [...]

I have been battling a disinterest in sex lately. I feel terrible that I haven’t really felt like being touched or touching at all. I’m sure there are outside influences as to why I’ve been so antisex lately. I’ve had to sit and figure it out, because I’m tired of feeling like something is wrong [...]