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Master has been practicing with his new matching set of floggers I made him for Christmas. The first time he used them on me was this last weekend at a play party. He told everyone that this was just practice and not a full fledged scene and that he wasn’t that good at it.
He started [...]

Master’s Christmas Present

I gave Master his Christmas gift yesterday. He’s been waiting for months for me to finish them. They are a balanced set of suede floggers. I don’t think I’ve seen a happier Master. He’s been wanting to perfect Florentine flogging for quite some time, but without a balanced matching set he was [...]

“The 12 Days of Kinky Christmas” by Unknown
On the 1st day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
A Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 2nd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
2 Nipple Clamps and a Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 3rd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
3 Blindfolds, [...]

I seem to be having a problem posting to the blog on Friday. This is the second week in a row that Master has asked me to post my Friday post on Saturday. I hope this doesn’t become a habit of mine. For some reason I just feel really wiped out on Friday. I’ve been [...]

I saw an interesting flogger on someone else’s blog a long while ago and thought it was not only interesting but could be fun to use. It was made entirely out of duct tape. Now, it’s lightweight but it bites with some force. I love it. The sting freak in me enjoys it once my [...]

Yesterday was really nice. I completely miss having friends close enough to just drop by. Seeing Selena and her husband yesterday was wonderful. I’m so glad we get along in any setting we’ve been in so far. The turkey wasn’t half bad either
I’ve been working on the Iron Gate v3.0 today. I’m very [...]

Well folks, I’m doing good. Master has commented a couple times about how relaxed I appear. I don’t feel as stressed as I usually am. Either I’m getting over this hurdle or the St John’s Wart is doing the trick. I’d like to think I’m doing this on my own, but a bit of natural [...]

Master and I went out tonight and bought another dildo. I love dildos. I think Master leans more towards vibrators, but I love nice rubber cocks. We got a 8″ cinnamon colored dick that’s close to 2.5″ in diameter. Boy is it lots of fun! It has a suction cup base so Master’s mind went [...]

I guess we all have our favorite BDSM websites we can’t live without. Here are a few of mine.
Personal Resource Sites:
Sir Knight’s Realm  ohhhhh yeah my bad thats mine and Sir Knight’s website.
The Iron Gate is one of the best BDSM resource sites i’ve ever come across. Luna has put her blood, sweat and tears [...]

Welcome to Exchange Edition #2, highlighting the most interesting, most controversial and smartest posts from the BDSM blogosphere - as nominated by the bloggers who wrote them. Not chosen by a committee, or pre-judged, these posts reflect each bloggers ‘pick’ of their own best work in the previous 2 weeks. It’s an easy way to [...]

Today was the first day of my relaxation after work, to try to get my mind off of work and back into submissive space. Shortly after I got home Master ordered me to a bath and as the hot water soaked into my pores I began to unwind. I think the whole thing worked! I’ve [...]

Master and I went to a play party yesterday. The exciting thing for me is that Master wanted to bring toys. We have never played in front of people and he has said he had to be very comfortable before he would do that. I was super happy when he pulled out the toys to [...]

Flogging. It’s a play activity that I take to like a fish to water. I love the feeling of it, the pure sensation, the rhythm of the falls, the sound of leather or rubber against flesh. It’s so erotic to me and lets me relax and ease myself into that sweet space I love so [...]

Basic Stats
Physical Features:

Brown hair
Blue eyes
6′ tall
300 lbs
Facial dimples
Freckles

Age: 30
Birthdate: October 24, 1977
Hobbies: Poetry, Spanish, Web development, Reading, Vampires, Learning, Cross-stitch/Emboidery
Marital Status: Separated (god I want to be divorced) and also collared to Master KnyghtMare
Family Data: 1 natural sister, 3 adopted brothers, 1 niece and 2 nephews, 1 godson
I’m very distant to my family though and [...]

I know you didn’t expect me to post since I said I was taking a break. Don’t get too excited. I don’t plan to be gone long, but I’m not back yet. This blog is still technically on hiatus, but Master insisted that I finish my story about our play on Sunday, so here it [...]

We had been talking about this day for over a week. Master wanted to schedule time to play. I was more than eager to play as well. I woke up this morning in the right mood as well. BONUS! I took a bath. Last night we got some special preview bath wash from Bath and [...]

It’s been a long time since I’ve had a weekend in which I didn’t have school work to do, and I didn’t have to go to work. All I have to do is some housework and find time to relax and enjoy things. Relaxing is going to be the hard part. As most of you [...]

For some people pain is pleasurable. For me it certainly is. I’m terrible at discussing the how’s and whys so I’m defering to an essay from Pyschology Today:

I wrote in my fantasy blog about my love of a certain toy used for pussy whipping. Uncanny how it came into reality. Master doesn’t even read that site!
 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/luna_and_sir/  If you are interested.

Master and I had a wonderful play session last night! OMG it was so hot. We have this toy that a friend made [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts: What sexual fantasies work the best to arouse you?
Sexual fantasy is something that has been pretty quiet in me these days. I miss it. I do have a few really good fantasies that I come back to again and again when I do fantasize.
First one is a purely sensual scene. [...]