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We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

I’ve got a new feature here at my blog. It’s on a separate page, titled Ask Me. You can post your questions to me and I will attempt to give you an answer. I’ll take just about any question you can toss at me, and since the questions are moderated, only the ones that get [...]

Kaya had a moment today where she talked about begging and how she has problems with it. I’d like to say that I have problems too, but not anymore.
It has taken a lot of work. Master insists that I beg for a lot of things and I think that most Dominants choose this route to [...]

A small but very powerful website/forum for abuse survivors is called Red-Letters. It allows for abuse survivors to anonymously post letters to their abuser. They are very raw and almost all will make you cry. I’m sure it’s therapeutic for survivors and I know that expressing some things that have been so hard may help [...]

A bout of depression Monday night has me working on my diet again. I just couldn’t take the fact that I was losing weight and then stopped and now I just have to face that the diet wagon is right in front of me again. I’ve joined SparkPeople.com to see how that support/community goes. I’ve [...]

Cliques are groups of people who want only to associate with themselves. They are in high schools, upper class neighborhoods and can grow anywhere else that people gather. They care only for themselves, gossip about everything, create assumptions about others not in the group and develop a self-pity party. They think they are cool and [...]

I hope everyone’s Thanksgiving went well. Master and I spent a nice day at home with no work, no stress (other than my usual cooking stress) and it was great. It would have been better had my pussy not still been sore from 3 days ago when Master and I went all out with so [...]

A Tag is like a signature line for forums and emails and stuff. They can be small or large. I had one made special for me and I thought I’d share it. Note, this does not look like me.

I’ve been working really hard today on making Sensual Service. It now has a new look. Please go check it out and tell me what you think!
Submissive Journal Prompts, another part of Sensual Service got the same treatment. It all looks like the same site.
There are a couple of glitches with the forums and such, [...]

Alright folks, I have registered for Blogathon 2006. I’m raising money for The Institute for 21st Century Relationships. Please check out the links on the left hand side for information about the charity and how you can pledge to my efforts!
What you can do to help:
Donate!
Start pimping my cause to everyone you know.
Post my efforts [...]

I’ve been going to bed early the past 3 nights. I just feel an overwhelming tiredness and fall asleep almost instantly. Am I sick? Am I overdoing it when I work out? Am I not getting the right nutrients? Is it because of my lack of caffeine? I wish I could figure it out. It [...]

While I seem to be slipping in my blogging duties, it may just be because my school work has taken over my life. I have so many large projects to prepare for and I want to get those done early, as I hate last minute pressure.
I have also been working harder on my diet and [...]

Today was a short fuse day. I can’t explain it; I was just grouchy, and if things didn’t go my way then I was mad. I’ve never been so angry about the simplest things. I don’t know why I have such a short fuse today but Master certainly noticed and expressed his concern and desire [...]

Chris Wilson, of Lakeland Florida, is the webmaster of NTFU, a user forum created in June of 2004 where people could post pictures of their wives or girlfriends nude. It recieved some national attention for the “G.I. Jane” controversy, but most recently for images of corpses in Iraq.
Chris granted interviews to dozens of news agencies [...]

While it may look like I have forgotten to post to this blog countless times, or that you are cheated with a short “informational” post, I’d like to let you know that I haven’t forgotten about you.
**These are not wholly my thoughts, but the ones discussed in a group function last night. Take them or [...]

Tonight is the first D/s forum for my local group since the summer break. I coordinate these on a monthly basis and love doing them. Dominants and submissives get together with each other to talk about issues in the lifestyle, from basics to more complex issues. Today for the submissives, it’s a basic topic: Limits, [...]

Other than than pile of homework that I will have for this weekend I hope to work more on my website. It truly has become somewhat of an obsession and I don’t see it stopping. I want to make it awesome and the best I can do. Labors of love are always the best. I [...]

This is just a head’s up post that I have worked heavily on the “Leader’s Speak” Essay section on the Gate. I added about 80 links to essays written by the more well-written among us. Some very facinating articles and worth a browse if you have a few moments.
I am hoping to put together a [...]

So, there was a comment awhile ago, when I wasn’t really with it mentally about how I’ve noticed so many submissives that have blogs I’ve followed are throwing in the towel on the lifestyle. I am baffled at how someone can do that. I’ve had time to think about it and maybe I can understand [...]