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Snagged from Journey to the Darkside
The first time I heard about sex, I thought it was…the coolest thing ever! From when I was 5 I tried to get more information, I experimented with the neighbor across the street (we didn’t know he had to have a hard dick to make it work). Uh-huh.
My [...]

Okay, so I’ve seen everyone I read post about this new Facebook style kinky community. I joined relatively early on but wanted to give it some time to grow before I let everyone know that I’m on it.
I’ve created a few groups and made some good friends. Come on over and enjoy the fun and [...]

I have a headache, which means that this post will either be rambling or so full of thought that you wouldn’t believe I had a headache. Either way I’m sure it will be enjoyable. Come along for the ride.
I’ve been doing a lot of reevaluating my life lately. How I wonder if I’m working the [...]

We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

I’m going to ShibariCon, I’m going to ShibariCon! Yes, I know I’ve posted before about going, but this time it’s official; I’ve paid the registration, Master has already been registered for a month, the hotel reservation has been made and all we need to do is save our pennies so that we can afford it [...]

Well, so no one commented on the Thursday Question this week about when you came out as kinky… does that mean no one is out? to anyone? No one wants to admit that they aren’t or are? Hmmm….
I’m out as kinky to all of my friends, half of my family and select few at work.
As [...]

So a little while ago luna and I celebrated a year of her being collared by me. This seems like as good a time as any to start more intensive training in our relationship.
Most of you will probably think that 3 and a quarter years is a long time to wait before getting into the [...]

Thank you so much for all the wonderful comments and thoughts on Soul Mates in my Thursday Question this week. I loved reading each and every one!
My idea of soul mates really did come from fantasy romance novels as a teenager. I loved the idea of a man to come sweep me off my feet [...]

I’m getting it a lot more recently. I can’t explain it really. It takes me completely by surprise and I don’t know how I’m supposed to respond. My heart bounds, my pride swells and I blush ruby red. What is it?
I’m being recognized. If not visually, as soon as someone hears my name their eyes [...]

Thank you so much to everyone that commented on the Thursday question about the praise, “Good girl.” I loved reading about your thoughts and emotions.
For me, good girl is the catch all phrase for high praise. You hear it alot in some relationships and rarely in others. I think Master and I are more in [...]

Christmas has once again come to us with reminders to give, and love and share the joy of the season with others. Here at home, I have been a rather grinch this year. There are no Christmas decorations up, I have no tree to put my dad’s presents under. My gift to Master was something [...]

Christmas is somehow magical. It’s not just the chill in the air and the music piped into every nook and cranny. It has nothing to do with the decorations, the presents or the bell-ringers at the mall.  I don’t even think it has anything to do with religion. Christmas is about inspiring hope and peace [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
List 5 things that you are grateful for in your life.
1. I’m grateful for my ability to change. Without the desire to make my life better and more fulfilling I would be stuck working at a dead end job with no happiness in my life. Since I’ve been able to change my [...]

Yesterday was really nice. I completely miss having friends close enough to just drop by. Seeing Selena and her husband yesterday was wonderful. I’m so glad we get along in any setting we’ve been in so far. The turkey wasn’t half bad either
I’ve been working on the Iron Gate v3.0 today. I’m very [...]

Tomorrow it was going to be just Master and I and a huge turkey breast with all the fixings. Now, at the last moment we will be hosting our good friends from the South, Selena and her husband. They will be in town visiting their family for dinner but wanted to come visit us after. [...]

Well folks, I’m doing good. Master has commented a couple times about how relaxed I appear. I don’t feel as stressed as I usually am. Either I’m getting over this hurdle or the St John’s Wart is doing the trick. I’d like to think I’m doing this on my own, but a bit of natural [...]

In two weeks I will be 30. I’m not sure how I think about this. I do know that I think about it often. It’s a milestone in my life and I don’t even know if I’ve really gotten far from my last milestone of 21. Sure I’ve traveled this journey and taken a few [...]

This whole weekend is a celebration for Master and I. We have been together for 3 years and we have grown closer, more intimate and stronger in our roles with one another. It’s a beautiful time.
Lots of sex is promised, as well as bondage, flogging and anything else we can fit in the mix. We [...]

Swiped from All Things Spanking : The idea is to copy and paste to your own blog, and bold the things you have done.
01. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid
06. Held a tarantula
07. Taken a [...]

OK folks! No one told me one way or another whether my sidebar was cluttered so…
I have made a blogroll page on this blog so that the sidebar can be a bit more clear and so that I can add all of my LiveJournal friends to my list! So, come on over, ask to have [...]