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Master has plans for lots of service and sex and debauchery for this weekend. I’m feeling better about my body and my arousal is slowly climbing. I’ve been in such a funk lately I feel so bad that he’s had to put up with me. I’ve not been sexual, I’ve not been needy and he’s [...]

Okay, so I’ve seen everyone I read post about this new Facebook style kinky community. I joined relatively early on but wanted to give it some time to grow before I let everyone know that I’m on it.
I’ve created a few groups and made some good friends. Come on over and enjoy the fun and [...]

So posting a meme….
Only two rules: You must answer yes or no. You may not explain unless someone asks.
Taken a picture naked? Yes
Made money illegally? No
Had a one night stand? Yes
Been in a fist fight? Yes
Slept with your best friend? No
Had sex in a public place? Yes
Ditched work to have sex? Yes
Slept with a member [...]

Dear Master,
This weekend was certainly full of a lot of fun! I had a great time at the munch and party. I hope that we will be able to play at parties in the future. I know I get floaty but there has to be a counter to it so that we can travel sooner. [...]

If you’ve been reading my blog you know that I St John’s Wart has been keeping my moods in check and balancing out the lows and highs so that I’m happier longer and less stressed with situations that I can’t change. I stopped taking them about 3 weeks ago without telling Master.
Since then there has [...]

I hate bad news, but I’ve got some sitting in my back pocket that I’ve postponed sharing with you all. Master and I will not be going to Shibaricon. We just couldn’t come up with all the funds we need. I’m still down about and hopefully we can start saving early to attend next year. [...]

Thank you to everyone who participated in this week’s Thursday Question!
Marks have always been a wonderful thing for me. When I first started out they were like notches in the bedpost about what I’ve tried and haven’t tried. I could itemize them in my head; that was the crop, that was the paddle, that was [...]

Sometimes when you are itching for some play it’s a very specific type of play that you want. In our relationship I’m free to ask for what I want, but Master does not have to comply. Today I asked Master for some helpless fuck whore time. I wanted to be bound so that I couldn’t [...]

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There’s this moment, when he looks at me and does that little wink of his that reminds me just how fun, loving and fabulous my life has been with him around. I guess I don’t say it enough here on this blog but I love my Master completely; with my entire being.
I’ve done a lot [...]

danae asks: Name a couple guilty pleasures?
Chocolate Milk and Friday afternoon naps
Is there something you had before your life with your Sir that you don’t now but that you miss?
Yeah, I miss fast food. I have such huge cravings for Big Macs and shakes sometimes that it takes all my willpower to not get into [...]

Ok, so I don’t know what to write about so Master comments, “How about that you aren’t exercising like you’re supposed to and you’ll get caned like last week.”
Uh-huh.
I’m being bad. I hate caning and yet it’s not keeping from not doing the exercise. Anyone want to know why? Do I think that pain [...]

I’ve been sick the past few days, some sort of stomach bug I can’t complain. It came on all of a sudden on Tuesday and I’ve had that icky feeling the past few days. I’m going to have to go to work tomorrow because I just can’t miss another day. I’ll feel so far behind.
I [...]

From My Bottom Smarts Spanko Brunch: What traits make a great spanker?
A great spanker is as unique and individual as the spankee. When I was first exploring BDSM I couldn’t tell you the difference between one person’s play style and another. Now I can see it within moments of their first strike.
The traits I see [...]

Master has been practicing with his new matching set of floggers I made him for Christmas. The first time he used them on me was this last weekend at a play party. He told everyone that this was just practice and not a full fledged scene and that he wasn’t that good at it.
He started [...]

What can a Dom do to show control over a submissive whether they are live in or not? These ideas have to be keeping in mind that the submissive has to work and be visible in public. They also have to keep in mind male and female submissives.
My mind went nuts over each individual activity [...]

I have carpal tunnel.
The doctor said it was still a minor case, but with the right treatment it may stay a minor case. I now have wrist braces to wear at night, every night. So much for the cuffs that I’ve been wearing for years as a part of my bedtime ritual. I’m hoping that [...]

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Tracking Santa
Come track Santa during his global trip across the world tonight! Norad has hooked up a tracking GPS on his sleigh and will be following Santa as he delivers presents to boys and girls all over! There are lots of fun things to see
Norad Tracks Santa 2007 

Grinch syndrome. I have it bad.  It started when I didn’t even want to put up a Christmas tree or dig out any decorations. Then I really wasn’t in the mood to make cookies, but I really wanted the snacks so that won out. I didn’t send Christmas cards and I’m not ho ho happy.
I’m [...]