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Thank you to everyone who participated in this week’s Thursday Question!
Marks have always been a wonderful thing for me. When I first started out they were like notches in the bedpost about what I’ve tried and haven’t tried. I could itemize them in my head; that was the crop, that was the paddle, that was [...]

I’ve not been feeling quite myself lately. I went to bed at 7pm last night, without dinner and slept albeit fitfully for the entire night. I’ve been having problems sleeping I’ve noticed but can’t pin down a source to my frequent waking at night. It’s never enough for me to get out of bed [...]

Orgasm denial and control is a well documented activity online; you can find all sorts of thoughts and opinions, how-tos and what nots from anyone and everyone under the sun. I’m not intending to add any more new ideas to this topic. Here are, in my opinion, a couple of the better written essays out [...]

There’s this moment, when he looks at me and does that little wink of his that reminds me just how fun, loving and fabulous my life has been with him around. I guess I don’t say it enough here on this blog but I love my Master completely; with my entire being.
I’ve done a lot [...]

We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

Santa’s Elves
Another quirky little game that Mom would play with us as a kid was Santa’s Elves. I’m not sure if it started because Mom just couldn’t wait to give us gifts for Christmas or if it was something that she experienced when she was a child.
Ten days before Christmas we would start watching our [...]

The Mmm-Mmm Game
My Christmas’ as a child were filled with odd traditions and games my mom would play around the holidays. One of them was the Mmm-mmm game. Mom would wrap presents as soon as she bought them so that no one could discover them unwrapped and ruin it for themselves or another. So, presents [...]

Master lit me on fire last night. He’s wanted to try fire play for awhile now. A couple weeks ago we watched a fire demo where the presenters used alcohol and cotton balls and drew squiggles and designs on the woman’s back and chest. I loved it; it was awesome to watch. Master had the [...]

It’s nearing the end of Love Our Lurkers day and I have just over 20 swats set up for my birthday thanks to comments from my readers. The beauty of this game is that it continues until the 20th! If you’ve been lurking and you come across my blog, feel free to comment! Master, of [...]

Bonnie from My Bottom Smarts has invited me and over 100 other bloggers to greet and show the love for our lurkers in the second annual Love Our Lurkers Day. You know who you are! I love knowing that so many people read my blog and possibly get some interesting information from it. I get [...]

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Swiped from All Things Spanking : The idea is to copy and paste to your own blog, and bold the things you have done.
01. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid
06. Held a tarantula
07. Taken a [...]

We got so busy yesterday with friends after work that I didn’t get to blog like I should, I’m making it up now!
Master and I have the same discussions over and over. They are always about my failings when it comes to the  sexual ballpark of blowjobs.  You hear it on this blog all the [...]

Middle of the week and I don’t have anything to talk about.
I’ve been busy with work and website work. Not a lot of sexual appetite and Master is suffering, sort of. He’s playing a lot of games and while it’s not hard to get his attention; I’ve not bothered him really. He works so hard [...]

There’s not a lot going on here today. Work sapped a lot of energy out of me and while I don’t know if Master has noticed he seems lost in his own little game world of EVE.
I’m going pretty well with the new push to diet and be healthy. Master is also eating healthier and [...]

The nipple clamp training is going nowhere. I can’t get past 5 minutes. Master tried to lift the ring in the middle today and I about panicked. This isn’t fair. I want to please him and I want to be able to take more pain, especially in the nipples where he seems to get the [...]

I wrote a poem to be submitted for the first game of the evening. Of course I won’t know if I won until I come back from my munch. Here’s the poem I submitted:
For a Cause
Strangers gather digitally
To raise money for charity.
No selfish gain;
A desire for change,
Blogs rise from nothing,
To spout poetry.
International friendship,
Searching for sponsorship.
Unusual [...]

Master has agreed to let me come up with writing assignment topics for my weekly assignments on my rules list. I’ve started a mental list and will make an actual list this weekend probably. Of course I’m going to be able to come up with some, but I think that those that read my blog [...]

The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?”
No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post.
The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot of things. [...]

I’ve had some very enlightening comments to my situation as of late. I do appreciate every comment I’ve gotten and they have really helped me see a few things about myself that just took someone looking in instead of me looking out.
I choose to be submissive; I guess that’s a harder journey than someone that [...]