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I’ve read a very good quote from an owner of a submissive who’s blog I read regularly. Kinky Little Girl was talking about punishment and how she let’s it continue to get to her after it’s over.
One of the earliest pieces of advice he ever gave me was, “Being a better submissive means learning to [...]

Thank you so much to everyone that commented on the Thursday question about the praise, “Good girl.” I loved reading about your thoughts and emotions.
For me, good girl is the catch all phrase for high praise. You hear it alot in some relationships and rarely in others. I think Master and I are more in [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
How important is the [...]

Dear Santa,
I’ve tried so hard to be a good girl this year.  Does that count?
No, really, I have been a good girl. I’ve worked hard on being a kind, polite woman that Master can be very proud of. I may not have achieved any of my resolutions from last year, but that’s what this year [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

Hardcore Romance asked the following questions on his blog and it made me really try to discern the difference for myself.
Do you like being a good girl or do you like being called a good girl?
Do you like being a bad girl and getting a spanking in order to make you a good girl?
I love [...]

Happy Labor Day everyone. I hope you used this unofficial last hurrah of summer for something fantastic.
I have been a good girl all weekend long.  I’ve followed all of my rules. I have bee sexually available and been used in every possible way he could imagine. I’m puss sore, ass sore, face fucked into object [...]

This weekend is going to be a focus on rules weekend. Hopefully it will be a smooth transition to what I want to be all the time. I’m going to work on getting 75% or better of my rules done correctly all weekend. I have to work overtime tomorrow so I am going to do [...]

This is the first post, of what I hope will be many, highlighting the most interesting, most controversial and smartest posts from the BDSM blogosphere - as nominated by the bloggers who wrote them.
Not chosen by a committee, or pre-judged, these posts reflect each bloggers ‘pick’ of their own best work in the previous [...]

I’ve had some very enlightening comments to my situation as of late. I do appreciate every comment I’ve gotten and they have really helped me see a few things about myself that just took someone looking in instead of me looking out.
I choose to be submissive; I guess that’s a harder journey than someone that [...]

Dear Master,
I know you know this is late. I know you know that my mood last night was not going to be conducive to writing. I’m glad that you are allowing me the chance to write this one late. I love you for being stern and yet flexible.
Yesterday’s play party was wonderful. I was so [...]

I’m cramping like you couldn’t believe today. I almost vomited during work today.. not once, but twice. I feel so icky. I have had a nasty headache all day and as Master puts it, “You look terrible.” Yeah, I look and feel terrible. Great.
So how do I plan on serving Master this weekend when I [...]

I hate butt plug training. It’s such a turn off. He reminds me and it just gets me down. Like this evening I was really looking forward to sex since I felt better than this weekend and then he reminds me I have to put this damn rubber thing in my ass. I’m grumpy now, [...]

Master commented after my post a few days ago about the spanking we had, that he likes when I post about the play because I don’t generally talk about it with him. He gave a good analogy but right now I can’t seem to remember what it was. The gist was that if I don’t [...]

Work was so very busy! I can’t imagine doing all that I did today in just 4 hours; thank God I now have 8. I look forward to finally getting everything done that I’ve always wanted to. Now to just catch up on my sleep pattern… (Suze promises that it will get better, someday….) It [...]

Since Saturday I have felt like I am living a different life. I’d like to attribute it to the newness of my reinstated collar, the preparation for new rules and behaviors and the very close decision of full time employment with my current employer. I’m really being a good girl I think. Master said the [...]

Name 5 things in your freezer at the moment…

Home made vegetable beef soup
Cheap frozen pizza
Stir fry mix
Leftover meatloaf
Icepops

•Do you believe in afterlife?
Yes
•What are 5 sites you visit daily?

www.fitday.com
www.gmail.com
www.amazon.com
luna-km.livejournal.com/friends
www.taking-it-off.com

•Five things you ate that you will never eat again:

Beouf tartare
Raw egg
Chocolate covered grasshoppers (it was a dare)
Peas
My mother’s Shepard’s Pie

•Five things that make you happy:

Netflix in the [...]

I’ve been reading a new blog that is a branch off of another I’ve come to love reading. The training of His slut is the beginning of a new life for good girl… she is training to be a lifestyle submissive. This has brought me to more thinking about how my training down the [...]

I know you didn’t expect me to post since I said I was taking a break. Don’t get too excited. I don’t plan to be gone long, but I’m not back yet. This blog is still technically on hiatus, but Master insisted that I finish my story about our play on Sunday, so here it [...]

This is a fantasy. No real play ever happened like this. If you do try this on your own please play safely and with clean partners.
She laid down next to me. She had never touched another woman before and was timid in her first attempts to carress me. I let her explore at her own [...]