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Master and I have an idea for another website. It would be a rope bondage site. Something with tutorials and pictures, how-tos and reviews of suppliers, rope, books and other items. What we’d like to get from you is ideas for what would be useful in a site like that. How can we set it [...]

Orgasm denial and control is a well documented activity online; you can find all sorts of thoughts and opinions, how-tos and what nots from anyone and everyone under the sun. I’m not intending to add any more new ideas to this topic. Here are, in my opinion, a couple of the better written essays out [...]

A routine is another step towards the life that I see myself in as your submissive. I crave structure and order and while I’m terrible at doing this for myself, I feel that I can do it for you. I will extend myself to following a routine to please you and improve myself. I want [...]

We’ve been planning to evolve the current munch group into a better more community friendly group lately and with that comes a lot of brainstorming sessions, a lot of work and writing and planning, policy work, topic ideas and dreams of being able to do it all and succeed. The current group as it stands [...]

I have to say thank you to everyone who answered the Thursday Question this week about activities that give you pause. It was a tough one.
Activities that we engage in in BDSM are completely personal decisions and I feel that as long as everyone participating is aware of the risks and dangers then the choice [...]

It feels good to see Master getting his thoughts sorted out and that he has honored me by posting here. I’m so proud that he has claimed me and is helping me become who I’ve always wanted to be; comfortable in myself.
My exercise routine has just started but knowing that if I don’t exercise everyday [...]

What can a Dom do to show control over a submissive whether they are live in or not? These ideas have to be keeping in mind that the submissive has to work and be visible in public. They also have to keep in mind male and female submissives.
My mind went nuts over each individual activity [...]

Thank you so much to everyone that commented on the Thursday question about the praise, “Good girl.” I loved reading about your thoughts and emotions.
For me, good girl is the catch all phrase for high praise. You hear it alot in some relationships and rarely in others. I think Master and I are more in [...]

I’ve come to the understanding that I am a blog addict. Master mentions all the time that I am constantly reading blogs. With ease I have them all in my RSS reader so that I don’t have to click the 50+ links on my sidebar everyday. The new information comes to me. Now most of [...]

So a lot of things have popped in and out of my mind today having to do with my birthday, getting older and how things have changed. I’m 30. There’s no getting past that. I feel like I’ve stepped over a hurdle of age and I’m hoping I don’t begin to feel it.
I was [...]

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I need to brainstorm for my writing assignment. My writing assignment for this week is to discuss a ritual that I might like to add to our relationship. I have a few in mind but I’d love to hear everyone else’s ideas. What rituals do you love in your own relationships?
I have a bedtime ritual [...]

Dear Master,
Not to seem too self centered but I think I did pretty good this week. I hope I can continue on this journey this week. I’ve been a lot more concious of what is going on around you and when you need attention. Right now I know it almost always seems like it is [...]

I have a writing assignment that actually was supposed to be done during my vacation week but it slipped my mind and now I’m working on it. Well, I’m thinking about it. I’m not really sure what I should say exactly. I have so many ideas swimming in my head but something is holding me [...]

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Yesterday’s rope demo munch has pretty good. We were new people at this munch and while there were no introductions we did feel… foreign. The rope demo however, was fantastic. Master and I as well as the entire group got hands on fun. Master didn’t learn a whole lot; but what he did was great.
The [...]

Master has been wanting to take me to see the fireworks for the 4th of July and all I have to do is look up when they are. He wants me to be happy because lately I’ve not been. So you’d think that I ran over to the news website to look up the next [...]

Here are the results of the poll I posted a week ago: Would you listen to audio posts on this blog?
You said:
Yes! I’d love to listen to your thoughts. 53% (8 votes)
Maybe, if they had a theme 27% (4 votes)
Sure, if you answer questions 0% (0 votes)
Nah, not really my thing. 7% (1 votes)
No thanks [...]

Well, I’ve made it to the middle of the week and I’m still battling the migraine from Monday night. I’ve got it under control and I was able to go to work today but I’ve still got the achy head, sensitive eyes going on. I wish it would go away completely because it’s tapping my [...]

Well, if you hadn’t noticed I’ve not posted here much this week. My domain may have been down for you temporarily. I had to change my DNS server. Sensual Service was down longer and may still be down for some of you. It will come back up (hopefully before Sunday’s posting of journal prompts) [...]