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Okay, so I’ve seen everyone I read post about this new Facebook style kinky community. I joined relatively early on but wanted to give it some time to grow before I let everyone know that I’m on it.
I’ve created a few groups and made some good friends. Come on over and enjoy the fun and [...]

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I. Mental Growth
VI. Behavior

II. Protocol
VII. Domestication

III. Physical Appearance
VIII. Creativity

IV. Sexual Training

IX. Ritual and Symbolism

V. Self Discipline
X. In the Dungeon

I. Mental Growth
Developing and maintaining the submissive mindset

Defining Myself Submissive
Discipline and Punishment
Give and Receive
Positive Attitude
Submissive Goals
Submissive Qualities
Submissive Triggers

II. Protocol
Master has very specific requirements for my manners [...]

I’ve read a very good quote from an owner of a submissive who’s blog I read regularly. Kinky Little Girl was talking about punishment and how she let’s it continue to get to her after it’s over.
One of the earliest pieces of advice he ever gave me was, “Being a better submissive means learning to [...]

Well, so no one commented on the Thursday Question this week about when you came out as kinky… does that mean no one is out? to anyone? No one wants to admit that they aren’t or are? Hmmm….
I’m out as kinky to all of my friends, half of my family and select few at work.
As [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
How did you come [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
If you are in [...]

Each relationship that we pursue is going to be unique and different. We can not compare one person’s dynamic with another’s even if we can agree that it is under the term of BDSM that we hold this relationship. In a recent comment on the post Speech Training there came up a need for me [...]

Master suggested that I think about some resolutions for next year, some goals I’d like to set for myself. I’ve been giving it some serious thought. I am hoping to have more desire to reach these goals than I did with last years. They kinda just fell away and I forgot them. Definitely not what [...]

“The 12 Days of Kinky Christmas” by Unknown
On the 1st day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
A Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 2nd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
2 Nipple Clamps and a Small Feather Pillow for my knees.
On the 3rd day of Christmas, my master gave to me…
3 Blindfolds, [...]

“Hey I’m Putting You In Bondage, Tonight” by Unknown
(Santa Claus is Coming to Town)
Oh, you better not pout,
You better not cry,
You better not shout, I’m telling you why,
I’m putting you in bondage, tonight.
I’m getting out ropes,
Checking them twice
Because you have been
Naughty but nice,
I’m putting you in bondage, tonight.
I’ll tie you hands behind you,
Lash your legs [...]

“‘Twas the Night Before Christmas” by Unknown (kinky)
‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even my spouse;
The paddles were hung in the cupboard with care,
In hopes that her bottom soon would be bare;
The children were nestled at grandma’s in bed,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;
And [...]

My blog is 3 years old today (well, yesterday). I can’t believe I’m still going strong and have things to say. It’s been a huge part of my submission development and growth as a person for Master. It was started when we got together and it’s had ups and downs just like I have. Please [...]

A meme I’ve seen floating around…
1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? wrapping paper. I love wrapping presents!
2. Real tree or artificial? Artificial. I’m allergic to evergreen.
3. When do you put up the tree? The first weekend of December
4. When do you take the tree down? Weekend after New Year’s
5. Do you like eggnog? Love egg [...]

Today is the first day of Holidailies. I hope to post every day this month in the spirit of Christmas; a kinky Christmas. Master and I made the pictures in the header for this month’s festivities. Hopefully we will have lots of fun to share!
I’m going to be sharing stories from my past and present [...]

From Submissive Journal Prompts:
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan
I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home [...]

Thanksgiving is just a few short days away and then Master and I will spend a quiet day stuffing our faces with turkey and the trimmings. I’m hoping that we have some Netflix to watch or we can do another marathon movie watching. I know last year we did Harry Potter. Maybe we could do [...]

This week we talked about that pivotal moment when you knew that the lifestyle was for you. To review, the question was:
Every single one of us is in a different place on our journey. Let’s go back to that epiphany moment. How did you know you were suited for this lifestyle? What happened at that [...]

I’m sitting here feeling a bit off for today. Not really sure why, but Master has noticed that I’m agitated. I just can’t relax! I don’t feel like I have a lot to say really.
This weekend Master and I are staying in a whirlpool suite I’m sure that we will have lots of [...]

So, you probably wonder where I was yesterday since if you know my schedule I should have blogged yesterday. Well, I was in bed, sick. I’ve had whatever crud has been going around. Master only got touched by it, but it laid me flat yesterday. Whatever it is, I’m not 100% yet which is a [...]

Bonnie from My Bottom Smarts has invited me and over 100 other bloggers to greet and show the love for our lurkers in the second annual Love Our Lurkers Day. You know who you are! I love knowing that so many people read my blog and possibly get some interesting information from it. I get [...]