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Nerve

I have a huge coding project on my plate now, the largest I have ever done. It’s a gaming community site, with a profile/blogging system like myspace. Ugh. I will be learning a lot by the time I get this one done. At least when I am done with it I can say that I [...]

[ More ] September 5th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

Erotic Short: Three for Teeth

This is a fantasy. No real play ever happened like this. If you do try this on your own please play safely and with clean partners.
She laid down next to me. She had never touched another woman before and was timid in her first attempts to carress me. I let her explore at her own [...]

[ More ] July 29th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2006 |

BDSM Advice Column: Dating in the Lifestyle

“It’s so hard to find someone in the Lifestyle that I’m compatible with. You are so lucky to have found someone.”
I don’t know how many times I hear this on a daily basis when conversing. It always brings up my view on the whole dating atmosphere within the Lifestyle. Yes, it is hard to find [...]

[ More ] July 29th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2006 |

Submissive Journal Prompt #4: Internet Impact on Lifestyle

From Kindlings:
Do you believe the internet has made the ‘lifestyle’ more accessible to people? How has the internet impacted your lifestyle?
I believe that the internet has helped and hindered the lifestyle. It has been more accessible for me to learn and grow in my relationship. It was the first place I went to explore and [...]

[ More ] July 29th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2006, Journal Prompts |

BDSM Site Showcase #1

Within Reality is one of my favorite BDSM sites to read over and over. There is so much information there that I just can’t absorb it all in one sitting.
Managed by danae and her Dom it is a beautiful expression of what a D/s relationship is and how things can grow and love still is [...]

[ More ] July 29th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2006 |

Need to slow down

I promise at some point I will find the time to write a good entry. I have been on overtime at work learning and training while people are there to train me so that when they leave me to my own devices I can work well. Hopefully next week it will slow down to my [...]

[ More ] July 19th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

Dating in the Lifestyle

I wrote this essay for the advice columns for The Iron Gate. I thought I’d share it here.
“It’s so hard to find someone in the Lifestyle that I’m compatible with. You are so lucky to have found someone.”
I don’t know how many times I hear this on a daily basis when conversing. It always brings [...]

[ More ] March 13th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Writing Assignments |

Being Happy

I’m trying towards a goal. While Master and I are still not sure where we will end up, we are certainly having a lot of ups and downs, explorations and excitement on the way. We are a first time relationship, we have agreed to work into things slowly. I’d have to say that about every [...]

[ More ] February 18th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Submission |

A thank you would be nice

–Begin Personal Rant–
Master has gotten into the habit of saying this quite often, at least this week. Now on a normal occasion where this would come in is if I had forgotten to say thank you, as I’m supposed to. Lately that “reminder” has come immediately after Master doing something for me. He doesn’t even [...]

[ More ] January 16th, 2006 | No Comments | Posted in Uncategorized |

15 Tons…

I have been having some major problems with my computer lately. I know it needs a new hard drive and I think the motherboard is failing too. I only hope it will wait till January when I get my next and last financial aid refund check.
I have the schedule book for next semester. It looks [...]

[ More ] November 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Skinny Thoughts |

One Year Ago…

One year ago, I was waiting at the airport, my heart in my throat, nerves running jolts through my body. I was scared too, fearful that we wouldn’t be compatible once we saw one another. But as I looked up to see him coming down the stairs to the waiting area my heart stopped. His [...]

[ More ] October 7th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Uncategorized |

First D/s Forum

Tonight is the first D/s forum for my local group since the summer break. I coordinate these on a monthly basis and love doing them. Dominants and submissives get together with each other to talk about issues in the lifestyle, from basics to more complex issues. Today for the submissives, it’s a basic topic: Limits, [...]

[ More ] September 29th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Uncategorized |

Personal Essay on Becoming Submissive

I hear on a daily basis that this person or that person is a natural submissive. These people don’t have to work to feel that quiet place in themselves that helps them feel the need to please and serve others. It’s just a part of who they are. For those people, there are a multitude [...]

[ More ] August 25th, 2005 | 2 Comments | Posted in Writing Assignments |

BDSM Myth: This is too complicated, I’ll never get it.

We all start somewhere. I started at the beginning too. You learn slowly, ask lots of questions and be prepared to change your mind on some things. This blogathon is where to begin learning if you must learn somewhere. I have a lot of things I can share, but please don’t take me as the [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

Who Am I?

Well, so now that you have an overview of what BDSM is, I’d like to take the time to tell you who I am and why I chose BDSM as my lifestyle. If you’ve heard this story before, feel free to skip it.
My scene nick is luna. I’m a 27 yr old submissive from Iowa, [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

What is BDSM?

This is an elementary post, those of you that know what BDSM stands for will be nodding and smiling. Those of you that have no clue what I’m talking about, I do hope you will learn what BDSM is and accept it.
BDSM is an acronym, a very large collection of words are within these for [...]

[ More ] August 6th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Blogathon 2005 |

Work and Play

Master has good and bad news today. First, he started negotiations on a very large project. We have hopes that he will be asked to code it and can get it done in a reasonable time frame. I’d be happy if he got this job. I don’t know what his thoughts are. The bad news [...]

[ More ] July 1st, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Life |

Are we mismatched or just at a place of change?

Master and I finally talked late last night. After a bit of more heated debate about my attitude and his position we calmed down and went through our needs and expectations of each other. If you don’t do this often with your partner you will never see what things change and how we grow with [...]

[ More ] June 13th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Role Dynamics |

XXX IQ Test

Just a quick post right now, I had this IQ test shared in one of the munch group listservs I’m in and found it intriguing.
XXX IQ Test
Warning! You will want pop-up blocker for this.
I took it and got a 130 score. If it follows basic IQ rating then I’m a XXX genius (which I doubt).
The [...]

[ More ] May 28th, 2005 | No Comments | Posted in Uncategorized |

Impact of the Internet

From Kindlings (www.inhischains.com/kindlings)
Do you believe the internet has made the ‘lifestyle’ more accessible to people? How has the internet impacted your lifestyle?
I believe that the internet has opened up a new world to a lot of differnet things. As far as the lifestyle, I do believe it has been a better resource for those exploring. [...]

[ More ] May 11th, 2005 | 1 Comment | Posted in Journal Prompts |
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