In this lifestyle theres one thing that is very common. That would be training. Everything from slave positions, behavior, to butt plug training, so i wanted to give you some great sites to look at and explore some great training.
Slave Positions: a good slave will take the time to learn all the slave positions. I [...]
Please take time to read some great BDSM safety and abuse essays.
BDSM vs Abuse: whats the difference
Safety : In the BDSM lifestyle
Safe Sane Consensual : Words to live by
Spanking and Whipping: Safety First
Saftey First : Fun Second
First Aid Kit : Never leave home without it
Please remember you still have time to sponsor and help The [...]
Well hello everyone. My name is His mija from Whispers in the Dark and i’m going to be a guest blogger here for a few hours while luna is at a local BDSM Munch.
I think i’ll start off talking about some of my favorite BDSM bloggers.
One of the first BDSM blogs i came across when [...]
I’m asking everyone to consider the importance of this cause. Feel the charity well up inside you and give. Give a dollar, give three… the small amounts do add up. Save the future victims, help the survivors. Spread the compassion.
Don’t let the idea that this is a kinky lifestyle stop you, violence is still violence. [...]
The main reason I’m trying to raise money for the Domestic Violence Project is because I know how hard it can be to distinguish abuse from a safe, consensual relationship. I’ve done my research and know that the line between pleasure and pain is not only blurred but can be diluted as well. In a [...]
Master and I mistakenly went to Barnes and Noble last night about 8pm. The mass of wizard dressed folk there waiting for the release of HP #7 was oppressive. We walked around a little bit; got a couple of books and then exited swiftly. I really wanted to spend some time there. I love the [...]
Responding to the Thursday Question: Each person’s service is unique. What makes your service unique and special?
Doing something just like everyone else isn’t really what the lifestyle I lead is all about. I was taught through reading and others that my relationship can be however it develops into; there is no right or wrong way [...]
The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?”
No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post.
The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot of things. [...]
To continue on the same thread that has been swimming around this blog for the past week; Master and I had a discussion about my eagerness to say no and what it means for our relationship. If you’ve been reading you know that I’ve been having problems with obedience. Master tells me he wants something [...]
I’m cramping like you couldn’t believe today. I almost vomited during work today.. not once, but twice. I feel so icky. I have had a nasty headache all day and as Master puts it, “You look terrible.” Yeah, I look and feel terrible. Great.
So how do I plan on serving Master this weekend when I [...]
It appears that all this time I thought I was pleasing Master ultimately lead to me being displeasing. Allow me to explain.
Upon becoming Master’s own he gave me the rule that I was not to come without permission. One that I have stuck to as a sacrament. I have never broken that rule. For me [...]
Since Saturday I have felt like I am living a different life. I’d like to attribute it to the newness of my reinstated collar, the preparation for new rules and behaviors and the very close decision of full time employment with my current employer. I’m really being a good girl I think. Master said the [...]
Well, so here it is… a preview of my resolutions for the coming year. I’ve been talking about these for a month, bouncing around in my head as to whether or not I should even set them and then what they should be and if they are decent goals. I have come to decide that [...]
I hope everyone’s Thanksgiving went well. Master and I spent a nice day at home with no work, no stress (other than my usual cooking stress) and it was great. It would have been better had my pussy not still been sore from 3 days ago when Master and I went all out with so [...]
Gratitude. I see it in Gratitude Tuesdays on blogs all over the web. I see it in cards and stories this time of year. Sadly, I rarely see it throughout the year; some reason it’s only now, when it’s “scheduled” or “planned”. I’ve been reflecting lately on what I’m grateful for and how I can [...]
I’ve been reading a new blog that is a branch off of another I’ve come to love reading. The training of His slut is the beginning of a new life for good girl… she is training to be a lifestyle submissive. This has brought me to more thinking about how my training down the [...]
Master and I had a wonderful time yesterday with a friend of ours that we haven’t seen in near a year or more. We always learn from her even in casual conversation and it’s great getting to talk and be yourself around her. We talked about lifestyle things, the group we are all members off [...]
What, in your eyes, makes a person submissive?
A submissive is a man or woman that for whatever reason chooses to follow the directions, adjust to behavior modifications and submit to the power of another. These things can include but are not limited to sexual submission, domestic service, platonic recession of power, work environment with a [...]
What, in your eyes, makes a person Dominant?
A Dominant carries specific qualities for me that express who he is to the submissive and to the community. These qualities are those that I look for in any person that says they are Dominant.
The first one of importance to me is self control. A Dominant shouldn’t upset [...]
For some people pain is pleasurable. For me it certainly is. I’m terrible at discussing the how’s and whys so I’m defering to an essay from Pyschology Today:
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I'm luna, KnyghtMare's submissive since 2004. I'm a BBW with brown hair and blue eyes. I've been married, separated, almost divorced now; living with my Master.
Master placed his permanent collar on me January 27, 2006. I'm learning and growing into the perfect submissive for him. I'm changing my behaviors, my attitude and my thought processes to become a better person.
This is an adult blog. If you get offended to talk of sex, sexuality and BDSM, please turn back now.
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