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Mara asks: When you think “romantic evening” with Master, what comes to mind? What’s been your most romantic evening, or what would you want to see for the future?
When I think a romantic evening with Master is usually entails going out to dinner, gazing intimately into each other’s eyes while we wait for our food [...]

Master and I are quite affectionate towards one another. There isn’t a day that goes by that doesn’t involve romantic and sweet caresses, hugs and touches. This doesn’t stop when we are out and about. He or I will rest our hand on the other’s thigh while traveling, we’ll hold hands in stores and are [...]

In a previous post I talked about the idea of adding another person to this relationship. Master and I still have it up in the air as to whether we would do well in a relationship like that. Nothing more has been discussed because we don’t have any prospective people to consider.
Master and I have [...]

Thank god the weekend is here. This week has been the week from hell! Flooding, more flooding, loss of internet with officials saying, “No known date for restoration of services.” Thankfully, we were restored today so my hiatus wasn’t affected at all. I’m exhausted, spent 3 times as much money on gas to go the [...]

1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night?
I love morning sex but we only get it on weekends.
2. Better Sex Music: Sade or Marvin Gaye?
Neither, I like Godsmack, NIN and Guns and Roses for sex.

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Video?
I have to choose? I love both!

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr. Doug [...]

The wildest sexual aid I have ever used was…a curling iron; it was also my first.
The most pleasure I have ever had with a foreign object was…um, can it also be that curling iron? Err, have I told you about the colored pencils? No?
The last sexual request I refused was…I didn’t really refuse it, I [...]

During our munch this past Saturday we talked about training; specifically about training a submissive undergoes. I used myself as example quite a bit because I know what I’ve been through to process the training I am constantly under. From the humble beginnings of please and thank yous to opening doors, the proper apology into [...]

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When I reflect on where I’ve been and where I’m going I begin to wonder how in the world I got where I am. Five years ago seemed like such a long time ago. I was not on this journey that I am now on. I wasn’t even able to explore more than in front [...]

Snagged from Journey to the Darkside
The first time I heard about sex, I thought it was…the coolest thing ever! From when I was 5 I tried to get more information, I experimented with the neighbor across the street (we didn’t know he had to have a hard dick to make it work). Uh-huh.
My [...]

I’m not doing so well keeping up with my blogging rule. I know that it will end up in the punishment book to be atoned for on Sunday. I was supposed to write a letter to Master on Sunday and I didn’t blog yesterday either. Now I’m writing to kinda make up for yesterday even [...]

Dear Master,
I’m going to try to keep my irritation of today out of this letter, but please forgive me if that becomes impossible.
The feelings I get when I look back on this week are all encompassed on Saturday. When I woke you up wearing lingerie and feeling fresh and happy with life it was like [...]

Master has plans for lots of service and sex and debauchery for this weekend. I’m feeling better about my body and my arousal is slowly climbing. I’ve been in such a funk lately I feel so bad that he’s had to put up with me. I’ve not been sexual, I’ve not been needy and he’s [...]

I’m a stats whore. I love checking my stats almost 3 times a day (maybe more). I’ve watched my stats fall quite drastically since January. I’m not sure what has changed in my writing to cause it, but I know that I have a regular following and I have readers and commenters that I love. [...]

I’m not horny today. Master is obviously very horny. So, what does he do but ask me to write about sex to get me turned on. I don’t think I’ll get turned on just by writing about sex or even thinking about sex. There is something today that’s just telling me to be nonsexual. I’m [...]

So posting a meme….
Only two rules: You must answer yes or no. You may not explain unless someone asks.
Taken a picture naked? Yes
Made money illegally? No
Had a one night stand? Yes
Been in a fist fight? Yes
Slept with your best friend? No
Had sex in a public place? Yes
Ditched work to have sex? Yes
Slept with a member [...]

Dear Master,
This weekend was certainly full of a lot of fun! I had a great time at the munch and party. I hope that we will be able to play at parties in the future. I know I get floaty but there has to be a counter to it so that we can travel sooner. [...]

If you’ve been reading my blog you know that I St John’s Wart has been keeping my moods in check and balancing out the lows and highs so that I’m happier longer and less stressed with situations that I can’t change. I stopped taking them about 3 weeks ago without telling Master.
Since then there has [...]

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Thank you to everyone who participated in this week’s Thursday Question!
Marks have always been a wonderful thing for me. When I first started out they were like notches in the bedpost about what I’ve tried and haven’t tried. I could itemize them in my head; that was the crop, that was the paddle, that was [...]