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Thank you to everyone who participated in this week’s Thursday Question!
Marks have always been a wonderful thing for me. When I first started out they were like notches in the bedpost about what I’ve tried and haven’t tried. I could itemize them in my head; that was the crop, that was the paddle, that was [...]

Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Journey. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
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I have to say thank you to everyone who answered the Thursday Question this week about activities that give you pause. It was a tough one.
Activities that we engage in in BDSM are completely personal decisions and I feel that as long as everyone participating is aware of the risks and dangers then the choice [...]

Thank you for all the comments on the Thursday Question regarding restraints. They were fabulous to read!
I am a rope slut. I love the feel of rope binding me and restricting my movements. As soon as the rope touches my skin I get a sense of floating and happiness that I don’t get with any [...]

Yesterday was my one year anniversary of being collared. We hadn’t even noticed it until I saw the post in my memories sidebar area. I can’t believe a year has gone by. It feels like only a few months ago that he wrapped that piece of leather around my neck and I asked if I [...]

From My Bottom Smarts Spanko Brunch: What traits make a great spanker?
A great spanker is as unique and individual as the spankee. When I was first exploring BDSM I couldn’t tell you the difference between one person’s play style and another. Now I can see it within moments of their first strike.
The traits I see [...]

Thank you so much to everyone that commented on the Thursday question about the praise, “Good girl.” I loved reading about your thoughts and emotions.
For me, good girl is the catch all phrase for high praise. You hear it alot in some relationships and rarely in others. I think Master and I are more in [...]

Hardcore Romance asked a few questions of his readers and I’m willing to respond to them here in my blog.
What do you get out of bondage?
I get many things out of bondage. I feel secure or helpless. I love the feeling of tightness, the ache of muscles, the lovely marks. I get all floaty [...]

I’m back to work today. I’m fighting the desire to sleep since I messed with my sleep cycle during vacation. I’m wearing the butt plug for training, I have the nipple clamps to endure as well. I do this so that Master is appeased and so that I can learn to get used to what [...]

I got a wonderful thank you letter from the National Leather Association-International Domestic Violence Project this morning. Here’s a snippet of what seraphina, the chairperson had to say;
On behalf of the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project I would like to thank you personally for your generous gift of time and soliciting donations for the NLA-I [...]

Let’s think about two different relationships. One is a husband/wife from the midwest with 3 kids. They’ve been married 15 years and to the outside they are a happy loving, successful marriage. The marriage bed is another senario altogether. The husband forces himself on her almost every night, he holds her down, spits on her [...]

Rope bondage in this house has become a wonderful past time. Master really enjoys himself with the rope and the art that becomes my body. He says it is a different form of play then the impact or sexual play that we do because it’s more intellectual. I can tell that he really likes the [...]

It’s the weekend and boy am I feeling frisky! Master and I have play planned for later on and I’m trying to get the house cleaned up so that the atmosphere can be just right. I’m feeling good, my sunburn is fading and doesn’t hurt anymore and it’s been a long while since I reached [...]

Dear Master,
Through a very active week and a full weekend I think we have been able to connect more often than recently. I’m so happy that you took the time out to give me the spanking I requested. I knew it would shift my mood to something more pleasing and the result was to both [...]

Today was the first day of my relaxation after work, to try to get my mind off of work and back into submissive space. Shortly after I got home Master ordered me to a bath and as the hot water soaked into my pores I began to unwind. I think the whole thing worked! I’ve [...]

Master and I went to a play party yesterday. The exciting thing for me is that Master wanted to bring toys. We have never played in front of people and he has said he had to be very comfortable before he would do that. I was super happy when he pulled out the toys to [...]

Dear Master,
I know you know this is late. I know you know that my mood last night was not going to be conducive to writing. I’m glad that you are allowing me the chance to write this one late. I love you for being stern and yet flexible.
Yesterday’s play party was wonderful. I was so [...]

Dear Master,
I was looking forward to the sensual blow job planned for today until I forgot about it. Now that you are expecting it I feel obligated to do it no matter what. I don’t expect to know is why I forgot, just that I did. Boy do I feel guilty. We’ve had so much [...]

I’m at work today as I write this. It’s Good Friday and that means no one is here. No one but me that is. I’ve seen about 5 people overall. It’s hauntingly quiet and kinda creepy. So what does Master suggest since the office is empty?
“Go to the bathroom, pull down your pants and masturbate [...]

Dear Master,
This week has been fantastic for us. We’ve been able to play intensely and spend time being just together. I’m still adjusting to full-time work and I know you are too. We have more struggle before we reach the end.
The playtime we had was wonderful and I know we both got what we needed [...]