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1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night?
I love morning sex but we only get it on weekends.
2. Better Sex Music: Sade or Marvin Gaye?
Neither, I like Godsmack, NIN and Guns and Roses for sex.

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Video?
I have to choose? I love both!

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr. Doug [...]

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I’m going to ShibariCon, I’m going to ShibariCon! Yes, I know I’ve posted before about going, but this time it’s official; I’ve paid the registration, Master has already been registered for a month, the hotel reservation has been made and all we need to do is save our pennies so that we can afford it [...]

From My Bottom Smarts Spanko Brunch: What traits make a great spanker?
A great spanker is as unique and individual as the spankee. When I was first exploring BDSM I couldn’t tell you the difference between one person’s play style and another. Now I can see it within moments of their first strike.
The traits I see [...]

What can a Dom do to show control over a submissive whether they are live in or not? These ideas have to be keeping in mind that the submissive has to work and be visible in public. They also have to keep in mind male and female submissives.
My mind went nuts over each individual activity [...]

I’ve seen this floating around and thought I’d add my own thoughts:
1. What did you do in 2007 that you’d never done before?
Went to a porn shop. I’ve not been afraid to, just never had the desire. Now I think Master and I go just as frequently as any other specialty store.
2. Did you keep [...]

Christmas Wish
story by luna
(This is fantasy, safety is tossed to the wind for a better story. If you intend to tie someone up, do not leave them unattended!)
KnyghtMare and Luna sat happily in front of the Christmas tree, looking at all the glittering presents. Christmas Eve was a special time and spending it together was [...]

Nothing gets me in the mood for Christmas like Christmas music. I love to listen to carols and various renditions all through December. They are just simple pleasures. The original versions are my favorites, but I do like an updated carol here and there.
Has anyone else noticed that not only is corporate retailers decorating before [...]

Christmas is somehow magical. It’s not just the chill in the air and the music piped into every nook and cranny. It has nothing to do with the decorations, the presents or the bell-ringers at the mall.  I don’t even think it has anything to do with religion. Christmas is about inspiring hope and peace [...]

I’m sitting here feeling a bit off for today. Not really sure why, but Master has noticed that I’m agitated. I just can’t relax! I don’t feel like I have a lot to say really.
This weekend Master and I are staying in a whirlpool suite I’m sure that we will have lots of [...]

Master and I went out tonight and bought another dildo. I love dildos. I think Master leans more towards vibrators, but I love nice rubber cocks. We got a 8″ cinnamon colored dick that’s close to 2.5″ in diameter. Boy is it lots of fun! It has a suction cup base so Master’s mind went [...]

Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts asks this week:
Have you a favorite room in your home or a favorite piece of furniture where spankings most often occur? Does the location ever depend upon the purpose of the spanking? Do the implements or rituals change when spankings are performed in different rooms? If you could construct [...]

Swiped from All Things Spanking : The idea is to copy and paste to your own blog, and bold the things you have done.
01. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid
06. Held a tarantula
07. Taken a [...]

I have my first paid vacation starting now with my job. I have a list of things I want to do for the break and know that I don’t think I’ll get through them all; I will try. I’d love to have been able to go somewhere sandy, with oceans and sun. Instead I’m home; [...]

Here’s some of my favorite BDSM scene music. Remember BDSM is romantic, fun, sexy, erotic and NOT abusive. Have fun!
Erotic Sounds - Great collection of mood music.
BDSM Scene -Music divided into categories
Submissive Loving - a great music selections.
I want to thank Luna for allowing me to be a guest blogger. I’ve really enjoyed it and hopefully [...]

Dear Master,
We just finished having a bit of fun and I guess I do have to admit that I am beginning to like blow jobs with you. I have to keep focused on your sounds and reactions and it becomes about giving you more pleasure and not fussing over my discomfort. I am happy [...]

1. If you had to choose being blind or deaf, what would you choose and why?
If I had to choose I’d rather blind. While I’d be terrified of the loss of my sight I know that I’d be more terrified if I never heard my Master’s voice again, the sound of his timbre and the [...]

From The Friday Five
1. If you could suddenly speak one language fluently (that you don’t currently speak) what would it be?
It would be ancient Egyptian so that I could translate all the heiroglyphics!
2. If you were to suggest a foreign film, that you really enjoyed, what one would you suggest?
Like Water For Chocolate

3. [...]

stolen from Bootpig
Here’s how it works:
1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, Media Play, iPod, etc.)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that’s playing
5. When you go to a new question, press the next button
6. Don’t lie and try to pretend you’re cool.
Opening Credits: In the End by Linkin Park
“I [...]

You’d think that with all the wonderful things in my life that I’d be looking forward to Christmas and the joy it brings, the unity of family and the wonders of the season. However, when I think of Christmas it’s depressing, lonely and sad. Perhaps it’s because we are staying at home this year, or [...]